Hello sweetheart,
I hope all is well with you. Its my very great pleasure to read back from you. It really made my day with the lovely email you sent to me and i like the way you answered my questions. I like the honesty with which you told about yourself and i think i like you. I am glad to know that you are nice and you sound it too, I like the way you talked about yourself, and i think you are very interesting too. I am beginning to look forward to meeting and knowing you, so that i can get to learn more about you. I want to take my time to really get to know you better and see how things work out between you and i. I just hope that things work well.
For me, I love arts, everything about arts. I love music as well. I like going to beaches, sun bathing. I love going to movies, musical concerts and sometime go out for my dinner and I love window shopping.
I also love cooking and reading in my leisure times, and most times, I just close my eyes and listen to music, while I reminisce. And yes, I am also for real, because I don't have time for playing games around, as I think its very awful when someone hurt another feelings. After I was hurt, I told myself that i would learn never to hurt or be hurt by anybody again, and that's why i am hoping to find a woman who appreciates a man true, deep feelings, and would make me feel loved, always.
Well, relationship can mean two things: 1, it can mean that we have a connection, which i think exists between two hearts that understand each other, and merges together. 2, relationship could also mean to be romantically and sexually involved and i think that we could discuss and get to learn more about each other when we get to that level. So, i think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mail one another, we definitely have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that i hope will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant. I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. At a stage where i thought that my relation was going to end with happily ever after, i was hurt and it really did hurt. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for her and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my woman, she could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card or roses for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and I reward them in my own little ways. To me, they are the little things that mean a great deal to me.
What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a woman who can display her affections, and does not have to conscious of where or how it is to be shown. I like a woman who can express her feelings for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate and romantic is a big plus. I love romance.
This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many women out there that are set in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advices. Stubborn women are a major turn off for me, because i appreciate being able to share ideas with my woman, and getting through dire times together. I like a woman who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded. I think being receptive and this brings about sensitivity as well. A woman who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with.
I could say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I like saying exactly what is in my mind and that includes my feelings, too. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for her to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. She doesn't have to do much, but just knowing that she's there solacing me is more than good enough.
Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone i once dated wouldn't not stand up for me, even after she told me she loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my Girlfriend or my Wife, as i would always stand up for her. One thing i will always do for my woman is to protect her. I would like to meet someone who will be protective of me.
I cannot have children, but maybe we can adapt one if possible.. that sounds good? I like listening to R&B, slows, country, and blues, and sometimes, depending on the occasion, I'm willing too relocate , I pray our relationship works out, so that i can relocate for us to live together as husband and wife, as soon as our batch finish with the peace keeping mission, and i will also like to meet you tho. Now,i think you've known much about me and i too feel like i have already known much about you. I don't want to be on the dating site searching and searching, I just want to find one true woman and you are the one that I have chosen. Now you have to decide if you want me to be your only man. I expect that you should also switch your "search engines"!
So,what do you want us to call it between you and I, are we starting a new relationship or friendship or what do you want us to call it. Well, i cant wait to read from you soonest. Hope you are thinking about me ?
I will look forward to your mail. Take care of yourself for me all the time.
Yours always,
James
