Hello,
Thanks for the response. I will like to use this opportunity to tell you some more about me. My name is Capt. Derrick Chandler . I am 50yrs old,I am a widower, I live in Los Angeles LA, USA,But am in Afghanistan presently I'm Military Us Army A man of Peace. I seek LTR and do not mind a LDR to achieve this; though the distance i feel its up to both of us to determine if we gonna be or not. Sincere love doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart,if distance were measured in terms of the heart we'd never be more than a minute apart but hey, like I said, distance means so little when you love someone so much, and its up to us to determine if we gonna be together or not, and its worth a try.
I was once married to a loving, caring, honest and sincere woman until death came and took her away from me; i lost my wife 5yrs ago in an auto accident. I have a Son, He is all i have for now.. He is now 12yrs old, His name is Martin, he is loving and intelligent like me he Stay with my Nanny in California she's the one taking care of her. I have a kind heart and I have a lot of love in my heart to give it to my beloved woman. Am optimistic and do hope a day would come I would see a woman that will fill my life with sunny rays of happy family life. Though we have good and bad habits, we would have to share it together and accommodate each other, that way we would be in-separable.I will do my best to create warm tender atmosphere and special coziness where one can feel comfortable, i like people that are free and express themselves easily.
My ambition is to inspire my beloved woman constantly and stand by my nations I want the peace for the world, to help her to keep the balance between career and private life, just as she would also inspire me to do good. Love is most paramount for me, i need a companion to share my life with, who wants to create a strong family. I want to take long walks with her and share what life has in stall for us both joy and sorrow. I'd like to look up to her as an authority for me, be proud of her, adore her, be supportive, she would have my devotion, understanding,kindness, care, calmness, cheerfulness,soul support and my great love. I expect to get all these traits from her too in return, Everyone wants something good for themselves, or don't you wish yourself well? i want something good for me and my kid, that's why i wanna be with you Smile.
I am aware lots of guys would actually tell you they are loving. kind, honest, bla bla and when you meet them they are completely opposite lol, well baby am not a cliche, i can't tell you how good i am or how loving i am i have to show it, and that's what am all out to do. There are so many interesting things about me, i am realy fun to be with, and am hoping a special person like you would compliment me. I will be waiting to read back from you. A little more about me: I am intelligent, smart, honest, i don't smoke, but i drink socially and NOT to get drunk lol, i also have a good sense of humor. I love to make others laugh and like to laugh too. Pscheww looks like i have typed away, i would love to know more about you too, please describe yourself, dreams, aspirations and feel free to tell me anything about you, meanwhile i would love to know the following:
Are you still married? For i would NEVER date a married woman, for i know
i would like it if someone was wooing my wife. 
How long have you been on the site ?
What do you seek from the site?
What do you do for a living?
How many kids do you have and how old are they?
Do they live with you?
Do you have any pets?
I have attached a picture of myself to this email, let me know what you think.I would be waiting to read from you and i will be back as soon as i get back from patrol.
Thanks
Capt. Derrick Chandler
