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#427253 by ChattMan1962 Sat Jul 31, 2021 4:50 pm
There are several scams identical to this one upon searching this site, but not since 2018. You can search for "Versatile Domme of Class, Distinction & Sophistication". However, at this point, I can't figure out what the scam is. She hasn't asked for personal info, she hasn't asked for money (yet). She did ask for pictures. Is she planning to search my image & blackmail me?

Here's the gist. She contacted me via Adult Friend Finders (AFF) asking me to be her "slut"; I responded, provided a private email, & here's what she emailed back (almost word-for-word from the 2012, 2014, 2017, & 2018 scams shown on this site),

"On July 30, 2021, discreet mistress4slut <[email protected]> wrote: Hello my devoted and obedient slut.
"I am very serious about Dominating you. I think you should be mature and honest,and know how to serve and treat a Goddess like me.. I am very adventurous and experienced, and I would like to take you on a journey of a lifetime (long term) if you prove worthy of my Supremacy. I am serious about my search for a slave and would consider you further if you can follow My rules. I believe in Discipline and Kinks. I am a Versatile Domme of Class, Distinction & Sophistication with the experience of unparalleled Domination and alluring control. I am Well versed from Sensual & Provocative to Strict & Merciless. It all depends on my understanding of My slave and what urges I feel My slave and I have in common. I have more than what it takes to make you my slave because I am gifted with a wealthy knowledge and understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of the S/M B&D Lifestyle.You must be Obedient,Honest, Trustworthy, Loyal, Submissive, Slut,Pamperer, Respectful. I will train you to exhibit all these characteristics with STRICT training and Domination. I will take total control of your being and existence, as your only aim and goal in Life will be to please me. Although when out together,you will be more like a friend than a slave. You will have to be very good with your tongue because it will always be at work, either licking up my wet pussy or my nectar. I will get you a special leash and collar, which i will use to walk you around and tie you up when i don't want you laundering and whenever you disobey.i know you may find this embarrassing at first,but this frank and forthright exchange will allow both of us to feel confident about the activity and to understand our needs. Due to the vast range of activities and intensities that are possible in bondage play and fetish sex, i have realistic expectations and the anticipated acts will be enjoyable to you and I.I will like us to base this D/s relationship on Trust and Honesty, this should be our foundation,and i believe the sky will be the limits.. I know time will tell if you are truly willing and will be loyal to me. Your mistress.attitude is more important to me than physical type or appearance. I want a submissive who is honest, is capable of trusting me, and who has a strong desire for power exchange. I have had submissives with all levels of experience.
I will like to know everything about you.I would like you to answer the following questions to enable me know more about you;
1. When did you join the site and how many women have you been chatting and exchanging emails with?
2. Any form of disability?
3.Does anyone know about your kinky lifestyle?
4. Have you ever been a slave?.If yes,how many women have you served?.how long did you serve?.why did you leave your previous mistress?
5. Are you ready to be totally devoted to the mistress and be totally obedient,honest and submissive to the mistress,100%?
6. Describe yourself in 5 sentences !
That will be all for now.I would like to see some of your pictures in your response .Take good care of yourself and I would love to hear from you soon.
N.B , Meetings and sessions would be at my time , this relationship is very different from any other relationship you've had in the past , procedures must be taken and this is the rule of the lifestyle , We are meeting soon but i need to put your through the lifestyle so we just get into action and not discussion when we meet , You meeting and session will be frequent depending on your flexibility and that would happen sooner than expected only if you are ready and willing to follow my Lead. Discretion is 100%!!
Mistress Olivia"

If you have any theories on the scam angle, I would appreciate knowing them. Thanks.......

#427256 by AlanJones Sat Jul 31, 2021 11:00 pm
From memory of previous scams, it could go one of 2 ways. She may tell you that you need to sign up to a specific paid dating/sex site and provide you with an affiliate link. Then just drop you when she receives the sign up commission. The other alternative is that she will tell you that she wants you to prepare for your "date" by buying some specific sex toys from a specific seller (who is also the scammer using a different email address). You will pay for the toys, which will never turn up.

Of course, scammers evolve and sextortion is much more prevalent that it was when some of the earlier scams you relate to were posted, so she could just be after photos to blackmail you with.

Either way, it's 100% a scam, so the best thing for you to do is just block "her" and stop responding.

Please do not tell scammers that they are listed here - it will take them seconds to change their fake details and their new details will not be listed for any future victims to find.

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