I have tried to search for the name on Google, have even tried on Yellow pages in the States but there is no person with that name. I still have the phone number to the guy I was calling –checked it out, and it was from Ghana – a cell phone number –I still have a lot of pictures too – maybe someone can tell me where I can try to search for information ? Or can any of you guys help me. I am really new to this and wished it had never happened. I really felt I was in love with this guy. His face his eyes – it all seems so sincere, so nice , so trustful looking at… And even though I will never send him money – A little part of him wants to believe that al least his feelings for me were/are true – even though I know it is only me who is stupid here – and very sensitive unfortunately
Hello Futurewife 1958
I would like to say that you are showing great courage in sharing your story with us all here, it will be very valuable to us all.
My feeling here is he has particularly "preyed" on you sense of hope and longing. Would I be correct in saying that it is reflected in your avatar name, and the number being a personal date?
You have given us a great rundown of what your experience and emotions have been and due to your candidness others will gain from it.
I have quoted on your last paragraph and highlighted an cpl of things that do concern me and you need to be mindfull of.
1st. You have to convince your self and believe that this was a total scam, you musn`t allow your self to think/hope that there was "any" chance it might have been "slightly" real, Please accept that this is 100% a scam.
2nd. Please dont consider yourself stupid.... full stop. Its simply that you are a victim of a very deceitfull and calous person.
It is no wonder you are sesitive and I`m sure "expressing" your many emotions.
I would like you to know you have 100% support here. Please tell us how you are recovering from this ordeal.
And remeber to talk about it, when you have finished talking, talk about it a bit more.