Information on romance scams and scammers.
#51019 by Dotti Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:42 am
Cindy,

I am so sorry to hear you were scammed by this lowlife.

Unfortunately, if you sent the money to him by WU or Moneygram, there is basically no chance of recovering it. Nothing you know about him is real. He is in reality a young African man who is likely operating under several different identities, scamming several women at the same time. He is logging in from an internet cafe used by hundreds of people, so there is no simple way to tie any of the emails directly to him. He is operating entirely under false identities, and is likely an area where the police are usually very corrupt and will look the other way for a bribe. It is possible the money was picked up using false ID (but again, if he's operating from one of the main scammer-infested areas, he could pick up the money openly, simply giving a cut to the local police). If he gave you any phone numbers, they will track to cellphones that do not trace directly to him.

Your law enforcement can't do anything without the help of law enforcement in his country--local law enforcement can't arrange that, it must go through many political and legal channels. In the US, there is a special commission - IC3 - for these crimes. If all you lost was the money for a plane ticket, I'm assuming you lost $10,000 or less. The truth is, your loss is not high enough for them to act (I know that you have lost a lot of money, but in the eyes of the authorities it is not--there are people who have lost tens of thousands, even hundreds of thousand dollars to these scammers, so a loss of a few thousand is just not priority to them). However, we still encourage reporting these crimes to the appropriate agencies for 2 reasons--(1) they need to understand the scope of the problem so they will devote more resources to it, and (2) there is always a chance there are enough reports that appear to lead in one direction that authorities will pursue it.

He will not be coming to see you--he never was coming to see you, there is no plane ticket. He would simply create a last-minute problem that prevents him from coming (accident, robbed, daughter sick, work problem)--and that problem would conveniently require more of your money to be resolved. On occasion, the scammer will just disappear at this point, but more often they keep going if they think there is any chance to get more money.

As far as the future goes, the best thing you can do is cut all contact with him. Don't try to string him along as you don't want him causing problems for you. As tempting as it is to try to make him feel bad for how much he hurts you, it is best to understand that he has no conscience, and he honestly doesn't care. Scammers have no empathy, and no sense of responsibility for the harm they cause. They don't see their victims as real people--they are simply magas (fools) who are meant to be used for money. To him, you are just a means to an end, and all the romantic talk is scripts he has used on dozens of women simply to get more money.

Block him from your messenger, your phone, and your email. There is nothing to be gained by continuing contact with him, and you won't be able to heal from the experience until he is out of the picture. If he thinks he can manipulate you more, he will try to stay in contact, and wait for his next chance--once you have paid money, you are considered a good victim, and he will continue to try many different approaches, from declaring his love, to "confessing" (more lies), to threats and blackmail if he thinks those will work. The best way to avoid dealing with these, and get him to leave you alone, is to steadfastly block and ignore him.

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#51049 by Bubbles Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:04 pm
I am sorry you got scammed cindyp. Sadly there are possibly dozens to hundreds of stories like yours. The loss of money is hard enough, but that they do to your emotions is often the most difficult to get over.

Finding the truth is the beginning of the healing process. Posting here is also helpful in the healing process.

Because scammers hide behind fake names and are in a different country and they use different email addresses which they dispose of like tissues.

Posting their information up here, including email address, the name they use and the script, so others can find the information like you did.

Please feel free to ask questions as you heal from this experience.

Bubbles, former Scamwarners moderator.

Rest in Peace 24 June 2015.

Gone, but never forgotten.
#51834 by Bosco56 Fri Apr 22, 2011 9:43 pm
He's back. He contacted me through Match.com. He's now under the alias Liam Kelvin. His English is horrible. He says his wife died of breast cancer, and he caught the woman he was going to marry in bed with his best friend. Here's a tip--His English is horrendous, and he spells "No," "know."

Here's the tripe he's written:

I went to bed last night with a vision of you next to me. I slept like a baby all night, because I was not feeling alone. When I awoke this morning to see if it was real or if it was a dream, reality hit me that it was only a dream. Very soon, I know that you will be right next to me, and that I will not have to dream of it again because you will be right there so we can hold, hug and squeeze each other tight. Baby, I long to be there with you so I can help build you and support you, so that we can accomplish a whole lot together as soul mate.


He says he's a Brit, but actually, he's Nigerian.
#51854 by David Jansen Sat Apr 23, 2011 3:09 am
Welcome here Bosco56.

I am glad you spotted the scam. Could you post one of the first emails he wrote to you, including the email address the scammer is using please?

Being a victim doesn't mean you stand alone. We're here to help you.
#52087 by blackbetty Wed Apr 27, 2011 5:45 am
hi well i didnt get scamed by donald hill but mine was bob stattler and he used this letter and all the others from donald hill, I sadly fell in love with the man in the photo and he has used me and has broken my heart so i understand what you are going through, but i have learnt a lot and it will make my stronger and you to, take care and watch out for this name as well.
he also has a nickname ricky or bobbie?/

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Mandi6jd wrote:I have just discovered that the man i have been communicating with on "Girls date for free" is a fraudster. He has been wooing me with poetry and emails which have all been used in previous scams on the net. There is a pattern to his emails and then he starts to ask for money.

He says he is a mechanical engineer who has been educated at Liverpool and then got his masters in Oxford. He is currently in nigeria buying adaptors for oil and gas stations.

He needs money to come home as he didnt get all his adaptors paid for. i just want to know if anyone else has been caught out by his emails and his declaration of love to us.

He is a nasty man as he has now threatened me as he knows my real name and address and i have had to hand his details over to the police and the authorities.

Here are his details

DONALD HILL ([email protected])

NAME ON SITE: DONALD008 and DONALD0089

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AGE 44.......GLASGOW OR DALLAS
WIFE KILLED IN CAR SMASH WITH HIS PARENTS 5 YEARS AGO
NO FAMILY
MOBILE PHONE NUMBERS: UK (07415 325279) NIGERIA (+23 48036263336 )

When asked me for money he told me to send it Western Union to his agent in Nigeria who is
MIKE LOWREY ([email protected])
NIGERIA STATE ONDO
CITY AKURE 23434

Mike Lowrey is currently on the scam pages here already so watch out for him.

i will post some emails that DONALD HILL sent me.


My Good friend,

How are you doing dear?Am sorry we haven't talked all day i really miss talking to you...Here are more about me I love water! Beach,pool or shower,I just love water,it gives me a sense of calmness! I love cooking and taking walk in the park holding hands, but I have not done much of that Lately, I am a family oriented person, I am very close to my family and love them dearly before i lost them..I love to kiss,but h haven't kissed any woman for 5yrs,my lips are all dried up! Smile!..My favourite colour is Blue, I love listening to Jazz music, gospel and soul,I love country music also..My favorite meals are seafood,mexican food and fast food..I am the old school type of man that believes a man should spoil a woman, like give her flowers, open the car door for her,wake her up with a cup of tea or coffee depends on what she likes with a kiss on the forehead! I had a wonderful marriage with Jessica I must say, and if I have to do it again, I will do it all over again!

About my house in Dallas, I knew I wanted to buy a house in states, but didn't know what state to buy, So, when I visited TX for a conference, after the conference,I saw the house, it was put up for sale and fitted into what I wanted, I went for it and I bought it.....Lets say I was undecided about where to buy the house, but when I saw it, I just went for it and bought it... There is no one living in there right now..Its a wonderful 4 bedroom one storey house! I will have to bring you down maybe sometime If things work out so you can see things....I would be looking forward to chat with you tonight..Take good care of yourself for me...

Donald xxx


HOW CAN WE TRUST LOVE??
From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 27 January 2011 23:30:07
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


Hello Dear,
How are you..Am really sorry i didn't get a hold of you all day..I have been really busy moving here and there about the new contract am waiting to hear the outcome tomorrow...I really miss talking to you.I bought the house in Texas a long time ago.....Sweet magical mountain far from here i see,Take Me away so i'll no longer feel this air anymore....Let me linger in your love, surround me in your presence,let me frolick in your clouds and let me feel your gentle earth at my fingertips.Wash away my loneliness with the innocence of your love and let me forget that land from below.That land is contaminated but your heart is sweet Take me away oh from this stage of being alone, I need to be away from loneliness. Take me in your essence let me lay in your grass and engulf me in your Love But How can we trust love, and be sure it will last again? We gave our hearts to others, many times in the past. We shed many tears, and built many fears. And now we're afraid to let our hearts go. Because of the pain we've come to know. But if we are to love again, we have to take the chance. And trust our hearts, our only guide, to find that true Romance. So if we hide the Rose from the light, we'll never see it grow. But if we plant it in the sun, we know the Rose will glow. So tear down the Iron Gate you built so high and open up the door. The love you find may be the kind, that you've been searching for. We know that deep within there is a special part. And we know for love to live, there has to be a spark. And when that spark, grows to a flame. The heart we gave is never the same....I would be looking forward to hear from you soon and i hope you love my poem...


Donald


Good Morning M, Removed personal information. ~Bubbles

Your name sounds like that of a Jewel...hmmm......how precious you must be treated. I really dont know where to start from, I must say that your email made my day and i had to read over and over again and digested it and at the end of it all I said to myself "This Is What I Have Been Praying To God For And HE Has Finally Answered My Prayers" You really are a very wonderful woman, a virtuous one that a man would want to spend the rest of his life with,..
Most of my expectations & aspirations is to archive my goals in life and one of them is the project that am working on at the moment and it will be helping the Oil development in Florida and Texas. In simple words Cocoa beans essentially consists of a fermentation process that has recently been discorvered to produce cheaper Industrial Ethanol. There is a lot of oil down here and with the lack of infrastructure and resources the Economic Overview In 2005 in terms of the combined Gross Domestic Product (GDP) for the Economic Community Of West African States (ECOWAS) was estimated at $139 billion. Economies within the Community are at varying stages of development. Nigeria's economy is larger than the combined GDP of all other ECOWAS countries, with a GDP of $78 billion. In 2005, the Community's economies grew at a combined weighted average rate of 5.0 percent. However, substantial external debt within individual states remains one of ECOWAS’ greatest challenges. In addition, internal strife has adversely affected economic performance in several states.


Total regional exports, including intra-regional exports, were $68.4 billion in 2005 and ECOWAS had a $17.5 billion trade surplus. The region's major export commodities were energy products (crude oil and refined petroleum products), minerals (gold, diamonds, and bauxite) and agricultural products (cocoa, coffee, groundnuts, and cotton). The primary U.S. import from the region was Nigeria crude oil. As of January 1, 2006, President Bush approved the designation of 37 sub-Saharan African countries as eligible for tariff preferences under the African Growth and Opportunity Act (AGOA) .. As required by the legislation, this annual determination signifies which countries are making continued progress toward a market-based economy, the rule of law, free trade, economic policies that will reduce poverty, and protection of worker's rights. Côte d’Ivoire, Liberia, and Togo were the only countries in the region not approved for the AGOA.


In 1994, ECOWAS’ Francophone members Benin, Burkina Faso, Côte d'Ivoire, Mali, Niger, Senegal and Togo, with Lusophone Guinea Bissau, created the West African Monetary Union (UEMOA) in Senegal. UEMOA is a regional economic and monetary union which shares a common currency (the CFA Franc). Five ECOWAS Anglophone-members, The Gambia, Ghana, Guinea, Nigeria and Sierra Leone, have proposed setting up a second West African Monetary Zone (WAMZ) in December 2009 and launching a new common currency, the Eco. All five states signed the 2000 Accra Declaration for the creation of the second monetary zone, agreeing to reform their economies to meet specific targets prior to the introduction of the Eco. It is planned that the Eco would circulate simultaneously with the CFA Franc, with the ultimate goal of creating a single monetary zone for the entire Community. Both Liberia and Cape Verde have shown interest in becoming members of the WAMZ..

Well all I've been simply trying to explain to you in laymans Terms is to tell you all about my Job and that right now West Africa is the best place to purchase any type of Agricultural Cash crop especially Cocoa. Since all exports duties are basically focusing on the Oil Boom.

The "must haves" of my dream woman include her being able to forget about money and focus on the important parts of life, someone I can count on to always support me, give me space to be my own person, and who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor. It would also be nice of her to be someone who is generous with her compassion, attention, sympathies and Love. Someone who is Intimate enough to share their deepest emotional thoughts and desires, someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection. Being Gentle and Kind are also traits that attract me, I also like to have a partner that enjoys staying in together and having quiet evenings alone or with close friends. And most of all I must feel deeply in love and attracted to her. Am I asking for too much?

I also enjoy taking cruises with myself, going for shopping, hanging out at the park or museum. I also enjoy taking long walks at the beach but its usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time with someone to hold hands with & dig our feet into the sand, to Listen to the waves crash on the shore. To feel the sun upon our faces. Someone willing to travel to new exotic places and appreciate the things we've got, Even if it's not a lot. To feel the wind flow through our hair. To feel heaven as if we were there Because that special someone is next to me And there's no other place I would rather be.Well have to get back to my paper work now would be looking forward to your next email hope your still smiling bye for now..
Lots Of Hugs and Kisses, and pls put a smile on someone's face for me today.


Donald


Good Afternoon,
How are you doing today?I am writing you this to let you know how much i cherish you and want you in my life. Can you hear my hearts longing echoing quietly in your mind spanning the distance between us allowing my love to find. The one person I wish to share my heart my soul my life I long to hold you close to me And make my passionate wife. The years ahead hold promises although this beginning brings fear because no life is certain or ever free of tears but the best part of loving you is a sense of fulfillment so rare and the hope of each new tomorrow I awake to love you beyond compare. Honey I went to bed last night with a vision of you next to me. I slept like a baby all night, because I was not feeling alone. When I awoke this morning to see if it was real or if it was a dream, reality hit me that it was only a dream. Very soon, I know that you will be right next me, and that I will not have to dream of it again because you will be right there so we can hold, hug and
squeeze each other tight. Baby, I long to be there with you so I can help build you and that we can accomplish a whole lot together as husband and wife. Honey i hope to meet you up online soon.I would be looking forward to hear from you soon...


Donald

DEPTH OF MY HEART?
From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 29 January 2011 09:38:46
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


My Dearest Princess,
Good morning and how was your night?I really miss chatting with you but am happy we are getting intouch here...I am writing you this to let you know how much i cherish you and want you in my life. Can you hear my hearts longing echoing quietly in your mind spanning the distance between us allowing my love to find. The one person I wish to share my heart my soul my life I long to hold you close to me And make my passionate wife. The years ahead hold promises although this beginning brings fear because no life is certain or ever free of tears but the best part of loving you is a sense of fulfillment so rare and the hope of each new tomorrow I awake to love you beyond compare. Honey I went to bed last night with a vision of you next to me. I slept like a baby all night, because I was not feeling alone. When I awoke this morning to see if it was real or if it was a dream, reality hit me that it was only a dream. Very soon, I know that you will be right next me, and that I will not have to dream of it again because you will be right there so we can hold, hug and squeeze each other tight. Baby, I long to be there with you so I can help build you and that we can accomplish a whole lot together as husband and wife. Honey i hope to meet you up online soon. you can call me on my mobile......074-1532-5279...I would be looking forward to hear from you soon..


Donald


THIS IS WHERE HE STARTED ASKING ME FOR MONEY.


ALL I WANT TO DO?
From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 03 February 2011 08:11:05
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


My Princess Charming,
I really miss talking to you yesterday and i understand it was a busy day for you....Well,There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head, feels like some sweet feelings, unexplainable, not understandable. I feel your presence everywhere by me, your words and lovely emails make me know that you t exist, and I want you bad enough like the roses would need their perfume, like wind needs its songs, like snow needs its whiteness, like a little child wants ice cream Hummm......Friends cannot comfort my soul. Thoughts only make the pain in my heart worse. What do we do?All i want to do is hold you in my arms, and i cannot. All i desire to do is to kiss you sweet lips, and i cannot. i long to hear your soft sweet voice as you whisper words of love to me, but i cannot . All this i worry about each day and your absence from me now brings me frustration and sadness but i have an
alternative for this..just wish all my worries are gone now and i can start the contract and get huge money but i still don't believe you are doing this to me just because of little money.......Looking forward to hear from you soon...


Donald


I ASKED HIM TO SEND ME PROOF THAT HE WAS THE REAL PERSON IN HIS PICS SO HE SENT ME A COPY OF HIS DRIVERS LICENCE AND HIS PASSPORT WHICH I NOW KNOW WERE FAKE TOO!!!


My Princess Charming,
Every moment we share together we grow closer. I'm simply hanging by a moment, waiting to see you soon But the most important thing I've learned is that love is a whole lot more than flowers and candlelight. It's sticking together during those times when you're short of things, patience and confidence. It's sacrificing and always being willing to listen. Some People search their whole lives for one moment of what we share,but have never found it yet but thank God we met and now I offer you peace. I offer you love. I offer you friendship. I see your beauty. I hear your need. I feel your feelings. My wisdom flows from the Highest Source. I salute that Source in you.I will walk beside you, I will push you forward from behind, and I will run ahead and encourage you forward,I will always put a special spot of you in my heart. No matter where I go, I carry you in me...I have never for once blamed you for anything...All i was saying is that i don't know why you could be saying you can't help me unless i show you some prove but i would definately do that so that you can believe am a real man..I have begged you over any times that you should just forget about the london thing but it really seems you are still interested in him too..I would let you go if you choose not to talk to me again and i hope you find what you are looking for too but remember someone would always love you and care for you even though we have not met yet...Thanks..


Donald


MORE THAN ANYTHING?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 04 February 2011 11:49:05
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


My wonderful Princess,
You are such a wonderful woman that any lucky man would be praying to have in his life..am so glad i found you and you really make me happy this morning by fulfilling your love and promise for me...More than I crave Riches,Treasures far and wide,More than I need luxury,I need you by my side.More than I need shelter,And a cozy place to stay,More than warmth or safety,I need you in my day.More than anything on earth,The realm of all sublime,More than all these things I've named,I need you all the time.because in my life I don't have to work at being happy; it just happens...because of you. I want to grow old with you.I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt).I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do I want our friends and families to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do.....I would contact you later today as i need to be making calls now .Hope you love this email and please do take good care of yourself for me.....Love you with all my body heart and soul...


Donald

INSIDE OF ME..?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 05 February 2011 14:59:10
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles

My Princess Charming,
Let me start by saying that I thank God every night since I found you. You came into my life when everything seemed so dark but you provided the light to find my way. I've never been so certain of anything in my life like I am of us.I don't think anyone understands the burden I carry in my heart day by day ... knowing fully that you are far away from me.My days and especially my nights are so empty without you! I look forward to waking up to the softness of your skin against mine, your hair gently brushing my cheek. I can feel you breathing as if you were a part of my own body. Looking at you as you dream, gently "waking" you to the soft caresses of my hands and your body yielding to me.I feel as if I'm walking over clouds just thinking about you. You make my life complete. Inside of me there is a place where my sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm. I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter. But more often, you surprise me and find your own ways into my thoughts. There are even times when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. Then during the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. I know my thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever they wander, they always take me to you.Only the most special things in my world get to come inside my heart and stay.Honey you are special.....I really can't wait to be with you soon....


Donald


WHERE WOULD I BE???

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 06 February 2011 08:06:48
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


My Jewel,
Good morning to you...Where would I be if I had not met you? I'll tell you where; I would still be lonely looking for that special someone to make me smile again. We found each other at just the right time. The distance that is between us is only going to make our love stronger and there is less of a chance that we will take each other for granted.My Dearest, life can be cruel but when it all comes together there is no moment as sweet. That is how I feel about you entering my life. You have rekindled the flame called love in me. You have given one more reason to look forward to tomorrow. Now, you are a significant part of my life and I look forward to the day when we can make it permanent.Things could not be any better than having you in my life. You are my inspiration and my shoulder to cry on There is no one that completes me the way that you do. You mean everything to me.There is nothing that I would not do for you and there is no one else I would want to share my life with. You are the reason I get up each morning and start up my day, and you make me look at life with a new perspective. I have never met anyone as wonderful as you.If I had met you earlier in my life I know I wouldn't appreciate you as much. I thank God you came into my life at the right time!! it is a once in a lifetime thing..The way you express your love to me is so awesome!! I feel so loved! I need only to think of you to have all my troubles melt away. I want to spend my whole life with you, loving you and receiving your love in return. I long to hold you and feel your sweet caress.I love you Honey, i love everything that creates you.Let me know how you are doing today. Love you


Donald


CRAVE FOR YOUR TOUCH?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 12 February 2011 23:08:52
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


Honey!!!!How can you ache and crave for someone's touch When you have never felt it? I do this for yours, though, And the yearning grows more each day I have never wanted anything in my life As much as I want you When you whisper such sweet love In my ear when we talk You make me melt into a puddle Of complete helplessness You have become my every waking thought And my every dream at night I breathe in so hard Trying to catch my breath when we can't talk I close my eyes so tight Hoping when I open them you will be there But I know I have to wait Until the time is right It seems so far away That I think I am losing my mind I want to breathe in your scent And keep it with me all day long I want to taste your love for me By kissing your sweet lips I want to feel your body next to me So when you leave for awhile I can hold on I just want you to know That I really do have feeling for you
When the day comes and we are together You will always know and feel this I will always hug, kiss and hold you tight Every moment of the day and night.I am worried about you!!! i will not let anyone come between you and me okay!!. Forget that, no one on this planet earth with break us or come between us!! This is one thing i am sure of!! Still no goodluck from the contract so far...But i would be looking forward to chat with you when you are free...


Donald


DO YOU KNOW......?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 14 February 2011 11:35:07
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


Hello My Princess Charming,
Good morning my jewel...I have been really worried about you so much lately and wondering why you are not online but i can understand...Please how do you want to help me about all this am going through cos am really scared to death now.Do you know what it is like to look up into the velvet night sky, and yet not see the stars? Do you know what it is like to see the song birds sing their sweet music, and yet not hear their sound? Do you know what it is like to feel your heart inside you, and yet not feel it beat? Do you know what it is like to be in a crowd of people smiling, laughing, sharing their love together, and yet be all alone with no one around? Do you know what it is like when the light of your life has been extinguished, and you are left in absolute and complete darkness, frightened and alone? Do you know what it is like when the one you love so deeply and dearly is so far away? Your heart cries out her name and yet there is no reply. All you want to do is hold them in your arms, and you cannot. All you desire to do is to kiss their sweet lips, and you cannot. So, what do I do in such times? Oh to be an angel, and have wings that I may fly into your arms at this very second. To taste your sweet kiss and feel your warm embrace. To love you, to have the pain of needing you, vanish in your arms, as would snowflakes on a summer day. And to know that we would at last, be together for all our days..I would be looking forward to hear from you soon...I miss talking to you but someday all this would be over and we could be together..


Donald


More about my work...?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 15 March 2011 17:37:53
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


My princess Charming,
How are you doing today?i had a long night and slept like a baby as I had lots of things to do down here yesterday....done with 4 Purchases and still has 6 to go. I really read deep the emails you have sent to m5 over and over and It was all filled with what I want in my woman and what I want to give to her as well. I want you to know that no one is perfect, we all are different in life with different perspectives, but there comes a time when a man and a woman will come together, sharing words, ideas, feelings, thoughts and advice thereby building a very strong and unformidable family that will last long into everlasting happiness. I am not saying I am perfect baby all I want you to know is that I am fit for that kind of man you want in your life that will give you that ride all the way into everlasting happiness.
I have always wanted the best of things in life ever since I was a kid some came and some didn't come anyway......lol but that didn't make me change from whom God made me to be, i have been kind to people and have been into real big troubles because of it but I didn't and haven't changed till now and that's why God have been showing me favor and the latest favor he has shown me is meeting that woman that He knows is fit to wipe off the tears of loneliness that's been on my face for the past 5yrs and that YOU baby. I am really glad meeting you and I sure know that there is an happy ending to what we have started. All I just ask from you is your full support in everything i do.
I am looking for that woman that I can handle everything I have in life in her hands and she wont fail me, that woman that will be my all in all. My Job demands a lot and I must confess that it has lots of profit hung to it, especially the project that i am handling now, but I don't want to have all of that to myself.....that will be so selfish of me(smile!) that's why I am seeking that woman that will be like a mother to me, correct me and not condemn me when I am wrong, that woman that will be there to give me the full support in everything I do and i mean everything i do in life. And i am ready to make her happy and be fulfilled in life. I am fully ready to do anything for her to make her happy and give the relationship all it takes to make it work.
I want to start up a relationship here with you baby so that I can know and be looking forward to coming home to meet the woman of my dreams. As i don't want to be lonely any more. Loneliness isn't Ideal for those of us that likes companionship as its one of the deadliest diseases on earth and it can kill at anytime. That's why I am so happy that we both are ready to fight against it now and we are taking the steps already. I think I will have to drop lines here as I have to get to work now....i had to order for food at the hotel today so I just finished eating in my hotel room now. I will kinda be having a long day today but I will definitely write you as soon as I am back from work . do wish me luck today and don't forget to put a smile on someones face for me today.
Kisses

Donald

Falling deeply for you..?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 19 March 2011 14:12:25
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


Hey Love,

Sweetie i want you to know that thoughts of you made mine perfect today, I had a very long day and am really tired but still you were all on my mind. The real reason I'm writing this letter to you is because I am starting to fall for you, and it is driving me crazy, because I can't seem to tell you how I really feel. I need to know where I stand in your life and if it could ever be more than what we are now because I'm starting to develop strong feelings towards you, and I don't know why especially when I haven't met you in person and barely know what you are really like in person.
I like your eyes, your smile, your hair, your body, it drives me off the wall. I want you to know, I can be myself when I am with you. You make me feel like I have not felt in a long time. I feel like I can tell you anything, I love everything about you, to be totally honest you do something to me that no other has, I just want you to know what I feel for you is that awesome sudden feeling of love that poets write about and that we mere mortals only dream of experiencing. It is the love that is considered unconditional and undying; so great that my heart seems to burst with the joy of it. I don't care about sounding forward or anything anymore **Honey***....I don't know how you do it but every-time I thought about you today I found myself smiling, Words cannot describe what goes through my mind when I think of you! It just boggles me how someone I barely know could feel so wonderful to be with. I wont say bye for now just hope to talk to you later:)
Falling deeply for you and let's just believe things would be alright,

Donald


I AGREE TO SEND HIM MORE MONEY TO GET HIM BACK TO THE UK AND THEN HE SENDS ME THIS EMAIL AND CALLS ME RACQUEL...ANOTHER WOMANS NAME


My Love for you...?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 22 March 2011 17:54:14
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


Hi love,
I was just thinking about you again and I decided to write you. The first day we were introduced over the computer, I knew you were the one for me. The first hello and the first goodbye and I somehow knew. It has been a little over months now, and we are still fondly in each others' minds, souls, and hearts. Before I met you I had no idea what love really was like anymore until my heart truly started aching for you. Every hour we did not chat, and every minute we are apart, I feel incomplete because of the longing of you near me. I never knew a woman could have stolen my heart and made it truly hers in such a short time. I never knew I could love a woman more then my own life. I long for the day I can finally look into your beautiful soft kind eyes and tell you how much I love you, and need you. The true beginning of my life is when am going to be there in a couple of days. These long days we will both have to wait, and all my dreams are finally coming true. I don't know about all of yours? seeing you every day is going to be the biggest blessing to my heart knowing you are in touching reach of me, which does scare me, however in a wonderful way.
You are my every heartbeat, my every gasping breathe of life. What I need to survive and make it through this lonely world can only be conquered with you by my side. I do not think there are any words that could describe the way I actually feel about you. All I know, is you, dear Raquel, you are the only woman that is in my mind, the only woman that is in my soul, the only woman who truly and unconditionally has my heart for my lifetime and many more lifetimes the world has to offer us.....

When I think about you, my eyes start to water because I know you are somewhere else and not in my arms. But the thought of you keeps me going and going for another breathe of fresh air to keep my longing for you in my life going. I will never leave you, and I will truly never hurt you. I admire you. You are my inspiration for anything, and everything on this cold damp earth. I never thought my time would come to love, and then it came and I was hit with so much emotion and power I did not know where to put it all. I have stacked it piece by piece in my heart for you. I truly believe you are my soul mate, and you are the only woman I will only give all I have to offer forever. I hope you never let go of me because I love you, and I know you love me too as much as I love you. Just the thought of you brightens my day completely, and sometimes I do bring you there on purpose to make myself happy when I am down. Picturing your face makes me smile, and I cannot wait to actually see that adoring woman I know with the unforgettable smile I know so soon. I treasure you locked in the big steel safe of my heart.
I love you, sweetheart, and that is the only thing that is never going to change in my life. I wanted to send you this letter because, I think that you need to know what I am feeling. And I thought this may be a way to tell you and that you can look back at this letter when you are feeling down and think of what you mean to me, and how special you are to me. I want you to know how important you are to me and that I treasure every moment with you. Having you in my life has taught me the true meaning of love and I have only you to thank for that. Our kind of love only happens once in a lifetime and I know that I will never love anyone else the way that I love you. I want you also to know that you have become someone very special in my life and I thank you for welcoming me into yours. Thank you for filling my life with love and making it so wonderful. I wonder what would have become of me if I never met you.. Your love is the sunshine that shines every day of my life; you are the rain that showers in my soul ... love is a magic; it works like a miracle.
Your love is magic, I am so glad to be with you, Loving you more everyday and every second. I hope you have a good day today filled with my thoughts...

Donald


SO I HIT HIM WITH THE FACT THAT HE HAS BEEN A FRAUDSTER ALL ALONG. THIS IS WHAT HE SAYS.....


RE: My Love for you...?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 23 March 2011 08:11:37
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


You are just too funny honey...and i have always told you to be calm in everything you are doing..
My Raquel means the woman you have ever cared and love with your life...Hey remember i wrote this myself and it was sent to you..i can even give you my username and password to see if i have any contact with anyone other than you...I can see you want to leave me now because you know am in a blurry mess right now but i want you to know this is a great loss if you ever leave me and where would i start again?Am really sad and depressed over this now and i never knew you could get mad for calling you raquel cos that was what my father always called my mother when they were both alive but you don't seems to understand me at all...Am going crazy right now and this feeling is driving me nut...well take care of yourself and i promise i won't send you an email again so that you won't get mad for calling you names..

Donald

I TOLD HIM THAT I HAD HANDED ALL OF HIS DETAILS TO THE POLICE AND TO MY SOLICITOR

RE: FRAUDSTER!!!?

From: Donald Hill ([email protected])
Sent: 23 March 2011 22:28:00
To: Removed personal information. ~Bubbles


You see where you are wrong..i don't even have the idea of what you are talking about .I knew this would happen since you started showing attitude since morning but no matter where this leads us too i will always be sincere and love you till eternity cos you have really tried for me and be there for me when nobody is there...i never knew there is someone you always give feedback of every of our conversation and to your fake solicitor who is taking you for money and doesn't want you to get married..i pray he should continue doing that cos am not what you all think...i don't even need your money anymore and if you know you are so sure of yourself and not been bothered about the money you are lending me then prove it to me and show me you really love me like you always said with your mouth...i thought i already had someone to always call my love and lean on not knowing you are just here for games and call me names...I still feel i need to talk to you for the last time even though you won't talk again after this...with time i will get over it and move on with my life and to Dorothy she knows nothing about all this too so don't put people in bad situation cos God is watching us all...Am always sincere in everything i do and i will never lied or cheat on anyone...if though you are not going to talk to me again i know someday i will locate your address and walk up to you but i just hope it won't be late before you realize all this...you don't know what God has given you until you lose it...Take good care of yourself....Hoping to hear back from you and please stop calling me a fraudster cos am not...

Donald
#52145 by blackbetty Thu Apr 28, 2011 5:19 am
Suyzqu62 wrote:Hi this man is now going by the name Bob W Stattler. I nearly got caught myself how ever a very good friend found this site and bought it to my attention. He is one very smooth operator. Everything he emailed you is what he emailed me except he changed a couple of details. His wife Jessica now died in a plane crash and he now has a 18yr year old daughter who is in univeristy in the USA.

Thank you so much for putting this up as I am very grateful to put a stop to something that my gut feeling was saying something is not right and when I questioned him about it he managed to smooth talk is way out of it.

Bob approached me through "Are you Interested" through Facebook and the photo is totally different ot what is shown here. He says he 190cm tall and even managed to have the same birthdate as me.


Hi wow me too he had the same story he went by bob stattler, his daughter had same name as mine which was scary, I know how you feel he totally ripped my heart in two, i had fallen in love with that photo, i had been on my own for a long time only to get hurt once again. I hope thay catch these magets. i have warned facebook of him. heres hoping, im sorry to hear that you got hurt to, My sister helped me before it was to late,
#56926 by fatlady Sun Jun 26, 2011 9:22 am
I am not shure is that person same what you have tould. He is here in Finnland been in E-kontakti wiht profile rcoll01. His name has been Richard Collins and email address [email protected].

I have not been done no harm, because I began to suspect the use of too sweet language. So I Google text and all information was found.

Thank you to all of you when you told us about your experience here. Thus I 'was saved'. :wink:
#57160 by began steele Tue Jun 28, 2011 5:11 am
[email protected]
[email protected]
I have reposted the email addresses for google bots because
([email protected])
([email protected]) are not the same thing and we need those addresses searchable.
We know this one has a history of threats and blackmail but ignore them. They are meaningless. He won't leave Africa and by the time he gets the money he has donations to make to the gang master, and the Inet cafe owner, and also to Al Quaeda, and his regular protection money. Think criminal and gangster and that sums him up really.

We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night to visit violence on those who would do us harm. ~~ George Orwell.
#64337 by katewithers Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:25 pm
He is now going by Lawson Cole.... he found me on a site called Be2.... it should be "beware" as I think that most of the men on there are scamming.

his yahoo is [email protected]
his msn is [email protected]

His diseased wife is Jessica and yes a plane crash, and his daughter goes to UCLA in Psychology.. but that might change. I have saved his letters and will post them but they are very similar.

He is going to send a cheque to me apparently and I am to send the money to him... wonder how this will pan out lol.... no worries the authorities will be notified if I can do anything I will.

Kate
#64339 by katewithers Mon Aug 29, 2011 8:31 pm
OH wow!!! Just read about the daughter having the same name and that is so weird cause that is what he did with me too... gives me the willies!!!
#67005 by Tiano Thu Sep 15, 2011 2:44 am
katewithers wrote:He is now going by Lawson Cole.... he found me on a site called Be2.... it should be "beware" as I think that most of the men on there are scamming.

his yahoo is [email protected]
his msn is [email protected]

His diseased wife is Jessica and yes a plane crash, and his daughter goes to UCLA in Psychology.. but that might change. I have saved his letters and will post them but they are very similar.

He is going to send a cheque to me apparently and I am to send the money to him... wonder how this will pan out lol.... no worries the authorities will be notified if I can do anything I will.

Kate

in my case, his daughter goes to UCSF.. and I got an email from 192.com..
#166752 by stupid Fri May 24, 2013 10:17 am
wow I can't believe this men still going around with the same scam, he contacted me from badoo dating site, different stories...he told me he is a contractor from seattle and is in Nigeria for downstream a goverment contract....he claims he never married that his long life companion died of lung cancer, has no more family and his a God fearing person....long poetic emails I am posting one exactly as someone else posted it. I will also post some of the pictures he sent me. He did not get any money from me, cause once he asked to borrow money I knew something was wrong...

the email he used w me is [email protected]


You are such a wonderful woman that any lucky man would be praying to have in his life..am so glad i found you and you really make me happy this morning by fulfilling your love and promise for me...More than I crave Riches,Treasures far and wide,More than I need luxury,I need you by my side.More than I need shelter,And a cozy place to stay,More than warmth or safety,I need you in my day.More than anything on earth,The realm of all sublime,More than all these things I've named,I need you all the time.because in my life I don't have to work at being happy; it just happens...because of you. I want to grow old with you.I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt).I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do I want our friends and families to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do.....I would contact you later today as i need to be making calls now ......Love you with all my body heart and soul...

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