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#13764 by Ralph Tue Sep 08, 2009 5:44 am
This scammer was recently brought to my attention, I am still gathering information and will add it as it becomes available

Uses the Name Jake Sidwell
Email address used [email protected]
Targets victims from http://www.christiandatingforfree.com/
Claims to be;
Computer Engineer

Photo used

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Jake Sidwell (3:44:31 PM): <ding>
Jake Sidwell ( 3:44:41 PM): Hello sweetheart
Jake Sidwell ( 3:44:59 PM): how u doing today?
Jake Sidwell ( 4:01:36 PM): missing you so much babe
Jake Sidwell ( 4:02:07 PM): I want you to know that I am willing and ready to meet you this moment babe
Jake Sidwell ( 4:05:05 PM): I believe we are meant for each other and I have so wonderful plans for US
Jake Sidwell ( 4:06:08 PM): i hope to talk to you tonite my love
Jake Sidwell ( 4:06:12 PM): love you

Jake Sidwell: and will be from the Love of my life
Jake Sidwell: I hope you can get back online tonite before I go to sleep
Jake Sidwell: I will wait for you online for a couple of hours because i sense that you must be worried now baby
Jake Sidwell: hope you get back before I go..
Jake Sidwell: love you so very much baby
Jake Sidwell: miss you so much
Jake Sidwell: I just sent the information of where to send the pkg to
Jake Sidwell: in an email
Jake Sidwell: i believe its best sent via fedex
Jake Sidwell: I will be waiting for you
Jake Sidwell: love you
Jake Sidwell: am gonna go lay down now love
Jake Sidwell: hope to get an email from you
Jake Sidwell: or offline messages
Jake Sidwell: you working on monday??
Jake Sidwell: we can hopefully talk more tomorrow ok?
Jake Sidwell: love u



Emails
Dear Victims name,
Its with a smile on my face that I read your email and I really appreciate all the nice things you had to say and am gonna try writing and telling you more about me on here now..Hi there where do I start ?? about me huh ok how about this tell me whatcha think .... : ) I am a Computer Engineer I Love to sail/yachting and spend time out under a full moon on a clear night or even sitting in a cozy cabin with the fireplace sipping some great wine while listening to some soft soothing music ... Enigma ? candles lit everywhere mmmmm did I mention I am romantic very trustworthy honest loyal affectionate passionate very good with my hands so if ya like body massages !! very artistic in everything i do ...I am a perfectionist fun and loving person to be around and why am I here? I am here as i want to find my true love and not be played ever again why is it ? that people play games with ones heart and mind then leaving them devastated an show no feelings sure I have been hurt just like you in the past I have learned a lot and had my share of heartache and heartbreak along the way. Just like you.Experience is all the knowledge I have. Trying to make the right decisions, the right moves, I don't have all the answers, and I never will, but I use my experience as my direction and my caution.I have seen your profile and aside the nice picture I see on there,I also think you got a wonderful profile there.This has got me attracted to you alot.I love to travel ,infact I do it alot ,if its not on job,then a couple of times for fun and I would have owned a pet(love dogs) if I had time enough to take care of it.I am kinda busy and would rather not have my dog missing me all the time.
Look I know, and you know. At one point in time in our lives, we have been emotionally devastated. Falling in love with the right person at the wrong time or falling in love with the wrong person at the right time....The feeling as we would never be able to recover. Relationships taking us forever to get over before we can move on. We have all been in the same boat. I have loved, I have lost, and I lost in ways I never thought I would. But I had to move on. Its a cycle and we just cross our fingers and hope the next person that comes along into our lives, is going to be as honest and genuine as we all wish for...Listen, I am not the perfect man. I don't want to be. I want to be expected to make mistakes. I want you to expect I will look like sh*t in the morning hehe. I want to not always say the right things and I on occasion may disagree with your opinions, however, I will apologize for the mistakes I make. I will always try to look my best for me and for you. I will promise to let your opinions, whether I agree or disagree, be your own. I am not looking to change anyone. Just be you, and let me be me and let's see what happens, who knows right? I just want to be desired for what makes me, me. From inside out, outside in. And everything in between. I want to be wanted, the way you want me to want you.I am looking for someone special who shares the same values and morals in a relationship I strongly believe in "commitment" and am loyal and devoted to my relationships. I believe that trust is something earned that can be broken. I feel that with every relationship you learn and grow and that communication is the key. I am hoping to find someone who is sincere who believes in trust, honesty, respect, loyal and faithful, someone who is not afraid to communicate. I feel attraction is not completely based on "looks" but what is felt in the heart and shared with two people. Aside from all the seriousness hoping to find someone who is fun, has a sense of humor who is openly affectionate and not afraid to show it... Just feel its all more meaningful to share life with someone you care about.I am intelligent, passionate, and a free spirit. I am extremely strong willed. I can be stubborn. Yet, I am submissive by nature. I must have physical attraction and mental stimulation. I am open minded and like to try new things to keep it interesting. I am extremely sensitive, both physically and emotionally. I am a pleasure lover. I do not like pain. However, I am curious about many things. . I will try almost anything once.My love is very strong, deep and true. I love humor almost as much as I love sex . I am a philosopher, a prophet, and a poet. I seek my greater destiny. I am very honest,loyal,trustworthy,romantic,
sincere,faithful,affectionate,caring,loving if I seem to sweep your feet already just imagine what its going to be like taking that journey threw life with me by your side thanks so much for taking the time to read this


have a wonderful day and always remember to keep on smiling



Dear,

How you doing today? So sorry I missed talking to you on IM.Life is so unpredictable Victims name. Changes always come along,in big or small
ways. I don't know what happened that this sudden change has turned my world
upside down. I don't know exactly what it is, it just hit me, but there is
something really special about you.It might be all the things I see on the
surface, the things that everyone notices and admires about you,qualities,
capabilities and a wonderful smile obviously connected to a warm and loving
heart; these things set you apart from everyone else and mostly, the charming life you live. But it may also be the big things ... the person you
really are that I hope to know more someday. And it might also be the little
things ... the way you talk and all your actions. I receive so much joy just
being able to imagine a smile in your eyes. If I ever figure out the magic
that makes you so special, I'd probably find out that it's a combination of
all these things. You are a rare combination of so many special
things. You are really amazing. Inside of me there is a place where my
sweetest dreams reside, where my highest hopes are kept alive, where my
deepest feelings are felt and where my favorite memories are safe and warm.
I find that you're on my mind more often than any other thought. Sometimes I
bring you there purposely just to make my day brighter. But more often, you
surprise me and find your own ways into my thoughts. There are even times
when I awaken, I realize that you've been a part of my dreams. Then during
the day, when my imagination is free to run, it takes me into your arms and
allows me to linger there knowing there's nothing I'd rather do. I know my
thoughts are only reflecting the loving hopes of my heart because whenever
they wander, they always take me to you.Only the most special things in my
world get to come inside my heart and stay. And now, I realize how deeply my
life has been touched by you. I want to tell you, a lot has been running
through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so
you will have to bare with me through this. I keep thinking about the
future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and
what could be. I keep thinking about these things and I
realize they go hand in hand. A solid relationship is my future; it's what I
want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this
crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want
us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for
us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair
down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. I want you to pull the
covers off me at night and then I
have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to
see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion
all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long.. I want to hold
you when you cry and smile with you when you smile. I want to fall asleep
every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest
listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you. I want you to
be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go
to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I
want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the
people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. I
want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the
rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day, making
love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt).I want
to be seventy years old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy.
I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take
out. I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but
in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at
each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing
something stupid, and I want you to burst out laughing when you try to yell
at me. I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat
going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places
we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go
skinny-dipping in a hotel pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel
room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and
pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole
time.. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make
sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want our friends
to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we
do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face
and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us
to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely
soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble
into the bedroom. I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you" because you know it's coming from the heart.I want us to sit down with a box
of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup, and a thing of mint chocolate
ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love
you and be with you for at least forever if not a little longer.
I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided
to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running
through my head....this thoughts might sound crazy to you..but i really mean
all that i have shared with you..I want us to make a sucess out of this
project i am going into, God's willing...Victims name, I just want you to know that
I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I
found you. I'm really crazy about you, everything about you.Honey,I would love to talk more probably on phone or text messages.I hope you are having a good time at work.I hope to read from you when you are able to read this..Hope to chat with you sometime soon.
With all my heart and full of smiles.
Jake.
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#13766 by The Enchantress Tue Sep 08, 2009 6:15 am
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http://mingle2.com/user/view/167066

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Note this link here http://www.scamwarners.com/forum/viewtopic.php?p=12344#p12344

Much of the above mail has many similarities.

Life is so unpredictable. Changes always come along,in big or small ways.

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