Frances Colmar contacted me on Meetic at end of August 2008. He introduced homself as an American businessman operating in auto/moto delivering cars into far away countries/Africa. Soon after he left with the transport to Ghana and then the problems started. His son belongings laptop/iPod/games went missing and he asked me to post those to him promissing that he will pay back everyting on his return to London soon. I refused. He then progressed successfully in his business and put all his money into gold which he occassionally bought from his contact from Royal Family making me coowner and putting my name on the contract without me knowing it for our future together. That was his trick to make me feel responsible and come forward with money when the need arised. He then got "arrested "and charged with smugling so money has been needed for his ill son hospital treatement, lawyers, police, insurance, bribes. All those have been conducted by his so called friend Emmanuel Kojo Osofo Head Manager of Golden Tulip Hotel in Accra. There was the whole group involved: barrister, policeman, doctor, friends, son, others. My losses come to £4000 and inconsistences in his story and my debts made me finally find the strenght to break out from under his/their tumbs free. The whole saga lasted year ago but he hasn't forgotten me.I nearly lost my home and suffered mild stroke. I haven't been working at the time when all this has happened , scamer knew about very well I have been unwell and it hadn't stoped him from scaming me until my last money. Remorseless, heartless, cold, hardnosed low life parasite. He still trayed to contact me from time to time but I do not respond to him willingly and only twice picked up his calls not knowing it was from him an laughed him out hoping that it will make him resighn but no, scamer hardly give up on the source of income as good as I was. At those time I went under siege of many unexpected admirers contacted me over internet what means he sold my detaIs to another gang or put all his coworkers on the spot to get me back into their net.
I am over and much much better now, there is no danger he will get into me and my vallet again but he kept trying. Analising my past behviour I can only say that he was so successful with me only because he gotten me at my lowest time when I was ridden down with illness and family dramma. I was very wolnurable, a perfect model victim so much in need of love. The other thing which has made him seccessful with me is his high abussiveness. I've been brought up by mu German Grandmother and she was very abusive enjoying breaking me as often as she could and it is well int my mentality then when someone is so abusive I'll give up and follow scared of what might happen next if I won't obey. Thanks to God, Thanks God all those is well in the past now. However, I am posting this information here to make sure they are well seen and might help someone to prewent them from falling into arms of those monsters.
I cannot see the option for downloading photos, would someone help me with it, please.
Mon, 20 April, 2009 23:58:50
Re: dont turn your back on me!!
From: Frances Colmar <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello Darling,
I am sorry for what happen and i am not trying to blackmail you or scare you either.How can i do that to a woman i love and longing to be my wife very soon.I really know your house is in danger that is the main reason why i want to send you the bar but b4 i do that i need to get out of the hospital b4 i can go add the ownership letter to the package.I know in this world ,nothing good comes easy .Our relationship is something good which is going to result us in happiness very soon.I know we have been thru a lot babe but it seems you dont want to trust me.I really know for sure that i owe you some money and i am really going to pay you back and that is what i am doing to send you the gold bar but your perceptions wouldnt let you cope with me.I need to get out of the hospital and i need your help so i can do that.Julianna just help me this last time and all will be well with us for good. I really love you so much and for that matter i just cant mess you up babe and you know that.Hope to hear from you soon with a quick response to the help i need so that the gold bar can reach you this weekend.
LOVE YOU ALWAYS(FRANCES)
00233 208 768 665
Tue, 9 December, 2008 18:18:03
GOOD EVENING MADAM
From: Barrister Akomia Anamoah <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Madam,
This is Barrister Akomia,how are you doing madam?well i just had call from your partner about the Gold Bars which was siezed from him and now as he has been release we have to go for the Gold Bars and in this case we have to pay some amount of money before getting it out from the customs.Well according to your partner he said i have to contect you to find out how we can get a 1 Gold Bar from the customs so that we can sell it and raised the rest madam,and hope he do mentioned some amount of money to be use for document of the 1 Gold Bar which will cost you $3000usd and i promise i will use all my ability and wisdom to get all the Gold Bars sent to you after sending money for this madam,so with much regards i will like to end here and will be looking forward to read from you madam.
Barrister Akomia
Sun, 7 December, 2008 13:25:18
MUMMY PLEASE HEAR MY CRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From: Jnr Emmanuel Colmar <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HELLO MUMMY,
IT HAS BEEN QUIET A LONG TIME SINCE I HEARD FROM YOU MUMMY.MUMMY I AM PLEADING ON MY DADDY,S BEHALF SO PLEASE HELP US WITH THIS 1500POUNDS STERLING SO WE CAN GET ONE PIECE OF THE PACKAGE OUT SO THAT DADDY CAN DO SOME QUICK SALES AND WE CAN COME OVER TO YOU SOON MUMMY.I AM DIEING HERE MUMMY AND SICK AND TIRED OF THE SITUATION HERE MUMMY.MUMMY HEAR MY CRY AS YOUR OWN SON AND HELP DADDY.MUMMY PLEASE DO SOME LENDING FROM SOMEBODY AND HELP US WITH.DADDDY WILL PAY YOU BACK MUMMY.MUMMY PLEASE TRY HARDER FOR US SO THAT THIS ADVENTURE WILL BE OVER FOR US WITHIN SOME FEW DAYS TIME MUMMY.I LOVE YOU MUMMY.TAKE CARE
Wed, 8 October, 2008 13:34:00
Re: Mr Emmanuel
From: emmanuel siaw <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi xxxxx,
Monday and Tuesday hasnt been that very good , the days have been very stressing and hectic for me.Attending meetings,with nothing coming out of it and other time wasting conferences with people how are just not even ready to help an Executive member when there is a problem.All they think about is projects and bussiness,they only think about themselves and their work and family.Thats the situation here in Ghana."every one for himself God for us all"...
A whole lot has been going on here latelly xxxxxxxxx.
Frances is getting so much fustrated here seriously he is.
He hit a CID.He knows he,s not wrong in anyways ,but they wouldnt just believe him without his documents.
And i have made it clear to him we are doing all we can to raise money for the Documents,but he seem not to understand the whole situation going on.The Doc saids he,s just so much fustrated.He also advised i dont bring his son to the hospital.
The situation between Frances and the CID unit has been resolved,concerning his reaction .
He looks better,the CID unit wants to take him in , but the doc says he,s not much better.I talked things out with the doc and he understands the whole situation.Apart from him trying to help by keeping him there for some more days, he says he,s doing his job.The health of the patient is his priority and he insists he needs futher check,maybe tothe end d of this week.That to me,is good news from the part of the doc, ina way to help.
I happen to be at the Headquarters with my lawyer when yr call was coming through, so i wasnt able to pick it up.
On the note at the Headquarters, they wanted to know why we two,think Mr Frances Colmar is not a criminal and had the intention to smugle a National Valuable assert.My lawyer came up with an excuse that , all the right documentation has been done but have been missplaced for some reason not known,maybe it was becos he was in a hurry to meet his wife , he miss so much and he has a lil son,so maybe might have forgoten or missplaced and that we will need some few days to get it all ready.He then told us he will give us an escort to the Inssurancing company for verification.My heart then began to pound seiously...,then suddenly he had a call and told us he really needed to leave for an immegency.
All he was able to say before leaving was,"make it quick before he gets jailed)he,seem to understand the situation , but the whole Headquaters unit would understand like he does.
Frances saids , he needs his phone, but in a case like that , are only allowed a lawyer but not a phone.He is calm now and i told him , all about what we are trying to do, and what u are going through to help raise the money.He then said to tell u, he is very much greatfull and that he miss u so so much , he wanted to talk to u, but those guards wouldnt give us space at the hospital.He said even if u would have to sell something, a loan or whatever u do it, he will setle it all once he,s out of their grip,he gave me his word.
He wanted to see his son, but i explain to him , how the situation will be hard for lil Emme when he sees him,he understood,but seriously misshim.They have never been seperated for a very long time like this before.
I need to sign some few Documents on my desk, let me get to u latter
Mr Emmanuel
Monday and Tuesday hasnt been that very good , the days have been very stressing and hectic for me.Attending meetings,with nothing coming out of it and other time wasting conferences with people how are just not even ready to help an Executive member when there is a problem.All they think about is projects and bussiness,they only think about themselves and their work and family.Thats the situation here in Ghana."every one for himself God for us all"...
A whole lot has been going on here latelly J.
Frances is getting so much fustrated here seriously he is.
He hit a CID.He knows he,s not wrong in anyways ,but they wouldnt just believe him without his documents.
And i have made it clear to him we are doing all we can to raise money for the Documents,but he seem not to understand the whole situation going on.The Doc saids he,s just so much fustrated.He also advised i dont bring his son to the hospital.
The situation between Frances and the CID unit has been resolved,concerning his reaction .
He looks better,the CID unit wants to take him in , but the doc says he,s not much better.I talked things out with the doc and he understands the whole situation.Apart from him trying to help by keeping him there for some more days, he says he,s doing his job.The health of the patient is his priority and he insists he needs futher check,maybe tothe end d of this week.That to me,is good news from the part of the doc, ina way to help.
I happen to be at the Headquarters with my lawyer when yr call was coming through, so i wasnt able to pick it up.
On the note at the Headquarters, they wanted to know why we two,think Mr Frances Colmar is not a criminal and had the intention to smugle a National Valuable assert.My lawyer came up with an excuse that , all the right documentation has been done but have been missplaced for some reason not known,maybe it was becos he was in a hurry to meet his wife , he miss so much and he has a lil son,so maybe might have forgoten or missplaced and that we will need some few days to get it all ready.He then told us he will give us an escort to the Inssurancing company for verification.My heart then began to pound seiously...,then suddenly he had a call and told us he really needed to leave for an immegency.
All he was able to say before leaving was,"make it quick before he gets jailed)he,seem to understand the situation , but the whole Headquaters unit would understand like he does.
Frances saids , he needs his phone, but in a case like that , are only allowed a lawyer but not a phone.He is calm now and i told him , all about what we are trying to do, and what u are going through to help raise the money.He then said to tell u, he is very much greatfull and that he miss u so so much , he wanted to talk to u, but those guards wouldnt give us space at the hospital.He said even if u would have to sell something, a loan or whatever u do it, he will setle it all once he,s out of their grip,he gave me his word.
He wanted to see his son, but i explain to him , how the situation will be hard for lil Emme when he sees him,he understood,but seriously misshim.They have never been seperated for a very long time like this before.
I need to sign some few Documents on my desk, let me get to u latter
Mr Emmanuel
I am over and much much better now, there is no danger he will get into me and my vallet again but he kept trying. Analising my past behviour I can only say that he was so successful with me only because he gotten me at my lowest time when I was ridden down with illness and family dramma. I was very wolnurable, a perfect model victim so much in need of love. The other thing which has made him seccessful with me is his high abussiveness. I've been brought up by mu German Grandmother and she was very abusive enjoying breaking me as often as she could and it is well int my mentality then when someone is so abusive I'll give up and follow scared of what might happen next if I won't obey. Thanks to God, Thanks God all those is well in the past now. However, I am posting this information here to make sure they are well seen and might help someone to prewent them from falling into arms of those monsters.
I cannot see the option for downloading photos, would someone help me with it, please.
Mon, 20 April, 2009 23:58:50
Re: dont turn your back on me!!
From: Frances Colmar <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello Darling,
I am sorry for what happen and i am not trying to blackmail you or scare you either.How can i do that to a woman i love and longing to be my wife very soon.I really know your house is in danger that is the main reason why i want to send you the bar but b4 i do that i need to get out of the hospital b4 i can go add the ownership letter to the package.I know in this world ,nothing good comes easy .Our relationship is something good which is going to result us in happiness very soon.I know we have been thru a lot babe but it seems you dont want to trust me.I really know for sure that i owe you some money and i am really going to pay you back and that is what i am doing to send you the gold bar but your perceptions wouldnt let you cope with me.I need to get out of the hospital and i need your help so i can do that.Julianna just help me this last time and all will be well with us for good. I really love you so much and for that matter i just cant mess you up babe and you know that.Hope to hear from you soon with a quick response to the help i need so that the gold bar can reach you this weekend.
LOVE YOU ALWAYS(FRANCES)
00233 208 768 665
Tue, 9 December, 2008 18:18:03
GOOD EVENING MADAM
From: Barrister Akomia Anamoah <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi Madam,
This is Barrister Akomia,how are you doing madam?well i just had call from your partner about the Gold Bars which was siezed from him and now as he has been release we have to go for the Gold Bars and in this case we have to pay some amount of money before getting it out from the customs.Well according to your partner he said i have to contect you to find out how we can get a 1 Gold Bar from the customs so that we can sell it and raised the rest madam,and hope he do mentioned some amount of money to be use for document of the 1 Gold Bar which will cost you $3000usd and i promise i will use all my ability and wisdom to get all the Gold Bars sent to you after sending money for this madam,so with much regards i will like to end here and will be looking forward to read from you madam.
Barrister Akomia
Sun, 7 December, 2008 13:25:18
MUMMY PLEASE HEAR MY CRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From: Jnr Emmanuel Colmar <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
HELLO MUMMY,
IT HAS BEEN QUIET A LONG TIME SINCE I HEARD FROM YOU MUMMY.MUMMY I AM PLEADING ON MY DADDY,S BEHALF SO PLEASE HELP US WITH THIS 1500POUNDS STERLING SO WE CAN GET ONE PIECE OF THE PACKAGE OUT SO THAT DADDY CAN DO SOME QUICK SALES AND WE CAN COME OVER TO YOU SOON MUMMY.I AM DIEING HERE MUMMY AND SICK AND TIRED OF THE SITUATION HERE MUMMY.MUMMY HEAR MY CRY AS YOUR OWN SON AND HELP DADDY.MUMMY PLEASE DO SOME LENDING FROM SOMEBODY AND HELP US WITH.DADDDY WILL PAY YOU BACK MUMMY.MUMMY PLEASE TRY HARDER FOR US SO THAT THIS ADVENTURE WILL BE OVER FOR US WITHIN SOME FEW DAYS TIME MUMMY.I LOVE YOU MUMMY.TAKE CARE
Wed, 8 October, 2008 13:34:00
Re: Mr Emmanuel
From: emmanuel siaw <[email protected]> ?
To: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi xxxxx,
Monday and Tuesday hasnt been that very good , the days have been very stressing and hectic for me.Attending meetings,with nothing coming out of it and other time wasting conferences with people how are just not even ready to help an Executive member when there is a problem.All they think about is projects and bussiness,they only think about themselves and their work and family.Thats the situation here in Ghana."every one for himself God for us all"...
A whole lot has been going on here latelly xxxxxxxxx.
Frances is getting so much fustrated here seriously he is.
He hit a CID.He knows he,s not wrong in anyways ,but they wouldnt just believe him without his documents.
And i have made it clear to him we are doing all we can to raise money for the Documents,but he seem not to understand the whole situation going on.The Doc saids he,s just so much fustrated.He also advised i dont bring his son to the hospital.
The situation between Frances and the CID unit has been resolved,concerning his reaction .
He looks better,the CID unit wants to take him in , but the doc says he,s not much better.I talked things out with the doc and he understands the whole situation.Apart from him trying to help by keeping him there for some more days, he says he,s doing his job.The health of the patient is his priority and he insists he needs futher check,maybe tothe end d of this week.That to me,is good news from the part of the doc, ina way to help.
I happen to be at the Headquarters with my lawyer when yr call was coming through, so i wasnt able to pick it up.
On the note at the Headquarters, they wanted to know why we two,think Mr Frances Colmar is not a criminal and had the intention to smugle a National Valuable assert.My lawyer came up with an excuse that , all the right documentation has been done but have been missplaced for some reason not known,maybe it was becos he was in a hurry to meet his wife , he miss so much and he has a lil son,so maybe might have forgoten or missplaced and that we will need some few days to get it all ready.He then told us he will give us an escort to the Inssurancing company for verification.My heart then began to pound seiously...,then suddenly he had a call and told us he really needed to leave for an immegency.
All he was able to say before leaving was,"make it quick before he gets jailed)he,seem to understand the situation , but the whole Headquaters unit would understand like he does.
Frances saids , he needs his phone, but in a case like that , are only allowed a lawyer but not a phone.He is calm now and i told him , all about what we are trying to do, and what u are going through to help raise the money.He then said to tell u, he is very much greatfull and that he miss u so so much , he wanted to talk to u, but those guards wouldnt give us space at the hospital.He said even if u would have to sell something, a loan or whatever u do it, he will setle it all once he,s out of their grip,he gave me his word.
He wanted to see his son, but i explain to him , how the situation will be hard for lil Emme when he sees him,he understood,but seriously misshim.They have never been seperated for a very long time like this before.
I need to sign some few Documents on my desk, let me get to u latter
Mr Emmanuel
Monday and Tuesday hasnt been that very good , the days have been very stressing and hectic for me.Attending meetings,with nothing coming out of it and other time wasting conferences with people how are just not even ready to help an Executive member when there is a problem.All they think about is projects and bussiness,they only think about themselves and their work and family.Thats the situation here in Ghana."every one for himself God for us all"...
A whole lot has been going on here latelly J.
Frances is getting so much fustrated here seriously he is.
He hit a CID.He knows he,s not wrong in anyways ,but they wouldnt just believe him without his documents.
And i have made it clear to him we are doing all we can to raise money for the Documents,but he seem not to understand the whole situation going on.The Doc saids he,s just so much fustrated.He also advised i dont bring his son to the hospital.
The situation between Frances and the CID unit has been resolved,concerning his reaction .
He looks better,the CID unit wants to take him in , but the doc says he,s not much better.I talked things out with the doc and he understands the whole situation.Apart from him trying to help by keeping him there for some more days, he says he,s doing his job.The health of the patient is his priority and he insists he needs futher check,maybe tothe end d of this week.That to me,is good news from the part of the doc, ina way to help.
I happen to be at the Headquarters with my lawyer when yr call was coming through, so i wasnt able to pick it up.
On the note at the Headquarters, they wanted to know why we two,think Mr Frances Colmar is not a criminal and had the intention to smugle a National Valuable assert.My lawyer came up with an excuse that , all the right documentation has been done but have been missplaced for some reason not known,maybe it was becos he was in a hurry to meet his wife , he miss so much and he has a lil son,so maybe might have forgoten or missplaced and that we will need some few days to get it all ready.He then told us he will give us an escort to the Inssurancing company for verification.My heart then began to pound seiously...,then suddenly he had a call and told us he really needed to leave for an immegency.
All he was able to say before leaving was,"make it quick before he gets jailed)he,seem to understand the situation , but the whole Headquaters unit would understand like he does.
Frances saids , he needs his phone, but in a case like that , are only allowed a lawyer but not a phone.He is calm now and i told him , all about what we are trying to do, and what u are going through to help raise the money.He then said to tell u, he is very much greatfull and that he miss u so so much , he wanted to talk to u, but those guards wouldnt give us space at the hospital.He said even if u would have to sell something, a loan or whatever u do it, he will setle it all once he,s out of their grip,he gave me his word.
He wanted to see his son, but i explain to him , how the situation will be hard for lil Emme when he sees him,he understood,but seriously misshim.They have never been seperated for a very long time like this before.
I need to sign some few Documents on my desk, let me get to u latter
Mr Emmanuel
