#237218 by Gardengirl
Mon Feb 09, 2015 9:30 pm
i was just a victim of a Romance Scam, via Match.com. What started out as a "i was just cancelling my subscription & then i saw your profile" to the rapidly escalated "Will you spend the rest of your days with me" i was asked to pick him up at the airport - fortunately i didn't, who knows what may have occurred. a set up perhaps???
Like you, i was having alarms going off. i kept saying you don't now me, he would counter with more emotional BS. Avoiding key questions i had.
We all want love and we all want to hear beautiful things said to us. and do we deserve it? YES, but not at this cost. i was very fortunate that i discussed these feelings with a dear friend and she found Scamwarners and sent me the link immediately. i could not believe i was reading word for word, what was said to me, by email. it was the same "script".
i know this was not my fault - I do accept my part in it. Even tho my intentions were honest and true, this other persons was not.
as a final HURRAH TO ME !!! ... i turned the event around. i made up a lie - told him i had a major emergency and didn't know how i would pay for it & could i live at his house until this was fixed. (i was also given a false address) . 2 days later i received a text saying "have a nice life!" - i am presuming once they figured i had no money to send, they were done with me.
Sending healing light and protection to us all. we deserve it.
Gardengirl.
Like you, i was having alarms going off. i kept saying you don't now me, he would counter with more emotional BS. Avoiding key questions i had.
We all want love and we all want to hear beautiful things said to us. and do we deserve it? YES, but not at this cost. i was very fortunate that i discussed these feelings with a dear friend and she found Scamwarners and sent me the link immediately. i could not believe i was reading word for word, what was said to me, by email. it was the same "script".
i know this was not my fault - I do accept my part in it. Even tho my intentions were honest and true, this other persons was not.
as a final HURRAH TO ME !!! ... i turned the event around. i made up a lie - told him i had a major emergency and didn't know how i would pay for it & could i live at his house until this was fixed. (i was also given a false address) . 2 days later i received a text saying "have a nice life!" - i am presuming once they figured i had no money to send, they were done with me.
Sending healing light and protection to us all. we deserve it.
Gardengirl.