I believe love can be found however in order to do that one must first approach with a level headed coolness because a heart is a terrible thing to break. Today I watch how an already fragile heart was scattered even more by someone who cover their malicious words in honey. To the people who posted here they may already recognized the name or should I say names...Sgt. Alex Lawson, Sgt. Wayne Ebert, Sgt. Ebert Wayne or Sgt. John Ebert, I pretty sure the list goes on and on. So let me introduce you to another persona…Sgt. E6 Ryan Ebert Page from Kabul, a lonely solider with no living relatives and a wife that died on child’s bed. This man entire would is to serve in the military with no attachments to the world outside of war. That is the story that he tells you and because he is a solider you can’t help but believe his words. He approach through the match.com dating website saying that he has fallen in love at first sight with the picture you posted on the website. He then claims that his subscription is about to end that if you like he could still contact you through private emails. Thinking its sweet of him that he still wants to contact outside the dating site you give it to him. From there you begin sharing niceties…how was your day?, what are you doing?, it goes on each email going from romantic to extremely overrate poetic squeals. And because you believe in the honesty of people and you’re not that entirely great with computers you believe him. The emails then turn to texts over the phone, all hours of the day and night he would text you to the point where you didn’t even sleep just waiting for a text from him. All the while he never ask for money but you felt bad for him because he could get the small luxuries such as rice crispy treats, cereal, shower flips-flops, or even basic shaving cream…so of course you will feel bad for him. You will feel even worse that his birthday is coming up on April 10th and he has no one to celebrate it with. So you being the romantic decide to do something nice for your man abroad and make a care package for him. So you buy all the things he wants and needs, making sure that everything met your highest expectation so not only would you please him but at the same time hope that he becomes aware that you are there for him and truly want to be by his side. And all the while he tells you that his duty abroad is coming to a close and that he’s filling out paper work so he can come home sooner because he wants to join you on that vacation you will be take over the summer. You feel ecstatic and exhilarated that you won’t be lonely over the summer that you will have someone around to share your company with. A person to accept in your home and in your family because you feel and truly believe he is The One. The One man who make you feel so special and beautiful, and even though he is far away you get a thrill that he gets jealous when you meet other men or worries about you being alone with no one around. Yes, Sgt. Ebert does make you feel like the appreciated woman you deserve to be once he even cut a flower for you and send you the picture, it was a beautiful yellow thing and no one could take your smile that day from you. But as time goes on the sudden climax starts to dip and you being to get this inking that something isn’t completely right. He starts by saying that he doesn’t have any more for a decent meal over there and go on and on. Then he gets horrible stomach pains and has to go to a civilian hospital but can’t afford it. You aren’t completely sure what its all about because you don’t understand the procedures that take place in the military and since he is not asking for money directly you do not give it to him, your only saving grace. Sgt. Ebert then gets impatient about where that package you were supposed to send him, so much so that he becomes frantic. You deal with it calmly and set him on his heels then he feels so bad that he goes on to say that he didn’t mean to be pushy but please understand that he has no one else to turn to, only the love of his life with is you. He even gets his “commanding officer” to talk to you so that you don’t leave him in his time of crisis because again he has no one else and he has never seen Ebert more happy then when he talk to you. You decided to forgive and forget and believe that he is just stressed out so you continue with him. And for a while things are great and you look forward to meeting with him in June. You ask him what colors he likes, what activities he likes to do, etc… Then all of a sudden he stops talking to you and pays less attention to, you get upset and don’t understand what’s going on. When you talk to him again you tell him your bother by his behavior, he will tell you nothing is wrong and that he doesn’t like the way you are treating him. Again you step back and decided to end it and you tell him so but a couple of days later you are very said because you miss the routine of texting Ebert, then he texts you again and you decided that perhaps it will be worth another shot. Forwarding again you hear from him that he got that care package you send him and you couldn’t be happier then when he tells that you were something special. You truly do love him and really want to meet the man in person. But then something happen afterward he doesn’t text you for two days and then his commanding officer tells you he want on a mission to retrieve a vehicle and to take you for that gift you got him as payment for allowing Sgt. Ebert to use his phone to contact you. Then Ebert returns and tells you that he got word back from HQ that his forms were being processed and that if he wanted to leave he must pay for his own ticket even though technically is time of services is done with and will come back with the next batch of soldiers home. He then as you if you could give him $7000 to get home but then you remember that he said he had some ongoing issue that need to be paid off and while he didn’t directly ask for money he did say the issue was around $7000. At this point you don’t understand then what the point in being in the army if when your duty is over then down give you anything or even give you a ticket to come home. Was he into for the giggles of war? You aren’t quite sure. He never once ask you what your situation was like he just assumes you have the money. You feel weird about the whole thing and when you tell him that you aren’t really sure as to why the military wouldn’t pay for his retiring of duty flight home he gets offended. He has never once het you or even talked over the phone but he feels that as the love of his life that you should give him the money. This morning you felt very uneasy and haven’t answered his text back and for once you decided to check with a friend if Sgt. Ebert was telling the truth. What you find is less then appealing and down rightful. The man that you had such high hopes for and was in love was a scammer of multiple names, each more similar then the last. Perhaps Ebert though that because your English wasn’t because and you disliked computer you would never find out his “beautiful” reputation online. Months of writing, sharing, waiting and hoping come to a disastrous halt and the realization sinks in that you were played like a fool, a hopelessly, loving fool. And now while you may not have giving him your money, you have giving him your time, your efforts, a care package and above all your heart. The moral of this story may be don’t be a romantic fool and think level headed next the fact remains that when you are truly lonely and feel abandon anyone who shows you warmth can make a fool out of you no matter how intelligent or clever you might be. This story is for the women out there that have been fooled by scammers who don’t seem to realize that we are just as human as very one else and we have emotions that get hurt. Their livelihoods depend on people who want to be loved and feel love, and there’s nothing more ugly then killing someone with their own emotions. Take this as a lesson to never do the same mistake twice and don’t stay silent about it either. If you hear from a Sgt. E6 Ryan Ebert Page from Kabul don’t just play along with him just outright shun him. He wants nothing more than a sugar mommy to help him solve all his dilemmas, the man takes pride in his work and he is careful with the details you give him so he can use it back to you so that you feel like he is really listening to you. Don’t even listen to him or accept his interest invitations there’s nothing good about him.
While he will probably change his name again if he gives you the following information then its probably the same guy. This is disgraceful that soldiers are doing this now.
His emails: [email protected] [email protected]
Phone #: (503)-741-8500