This same person (James Andrews) is actually scamming me right at this very moment. I jointed Match.com and he winked at me and sent me an email giving me his personal email address which I then replied to. He has sent me 2 emails and only after I had replied to the second did I find out. My friend in Australia checked with his email address and forwarded this link to me. He has not responded yet to my last email in which I answered all his random questions and stupidly send him some photo's...of family which he had kindly asked for after giving me his condolences on my Dad's death. Now reading into the emails I can see his use of the English Language is not right. I did not notice at first because he said he is Swedish but has been living in UK for a long time. But is now in Auckland, New Zealand which is where I am. When he emails me back, I so want to really "give it to him" and let him know what an idiot he is...or do I just ignore him and block his emails? I will attach his emails below:
Hello Tracey , Hope you're doing great?it's a great pleasure to get your email, Am so sorry that am just getting back to you now,I have been busy trying to get some paper work together,im bidding for a contract,so i need to get all my documents together if i want to win the conract,So i bet you see i have been quite busy,lol. I really appreciate your amicable response, It has been long i shared feelings with anyone, Well you might not understand, Being able to come home after work and have a nice conversation with someone special is something that has been missing in my life for a long time.
After reading your profile and email it shows that you are an interesting and a fun woman, Well like I said before now, Am new to this online stuff , Don't really know how it works but i believe I will with time, Well i think the first thing to do is to tell you more about me, I'm James,51, a Professional Engineer but it's forms in two way oil drilling and constructing, I am Originally from Gothenburg Sweden. i come from a family of 3, My Mom, Dad and I, I Lost my father 7years ago and my mum of cancer early last year. (am Over that now and have Moved on) I graduated from Cambridge University. I Live in England but at the moment i am in exeter area,Auckland Area, but won't mind relocating (don't have anywhere in mind and look forward to deciding that with miss right) i have a daughter, Kim,10,She is all i have now, i am 5"10. tall, Brown eyes, Divorced for 5 years now, I had to do it cos my ex cheated on me, being reflective, Its not the best of thoughts to remember all that she did to me, I'm very passionate, stable, and the photo is current. Yes, I really do look some years younger than I am. I'm well read, intelligent and have common sense, English is not my first language,swedish is, but I have a London accent as I have spent more time in London.
My passions include reading inspirational books and clever mysteries, the most touching book that i have ever read is the one by John Manson, really inspirational, would push you from where you are to where you should be. On Music, Am into Sentimental Rock as i guess you already Know, I Love singers like Evanescence, Linking park, Dido and Enya too. Favorite composer would be John Fredrick Handle, Although am really not into operas. Am an Art Lover to, I don't like to be the center of Attraction, I love to lay low, I Am a movie Lover, I Love the cinemas, Am the comedy type, I also watch some actions packed thriller, Adventures and some decent Erotica. My Favorite actor is Brad Pitt(Boy Sexy). I Love to cook and love Mexican dishes because they are quite spicy. As we all know, Love making is an essential part of a relationship as it's keeps the Fire burning. I Love to Travel for fun but haven't really had the time to travel so much, i have been to Germany and India. If am to go on a Vacation I'll Love to go to Paris. I Love the Museums and art Galleries. Concerning pets,Am a Dog Lover, Well all i seek here is true love and happiness, I really want to settle down and be happy, All that I want in a relationship is honesty and care, meaning- to be up front with each other and open our hearts out to each other without the lies. Loving ... meaning - loving yourself, children and each other and never letting the music in your heart stop. being kind to others, these two things are more important to me than all of the rest.
I will want my woman to be passionate, Loving, Romantic, Kind, Honest, Reliable, Unselfish, has sense of Humor, understanding and considerate, I hope am not asking for to much, Am a one woman man, I just want someone that will hold on to what little we find cos that's the way to move forward and as well make it big, I know that Rome was not built in a day and I am ready to start and stand all, And i want that from my woman, I will want us to keep in touch and see what happens and i predict all will go well,I will love to meet you in person, communication matters to me so much, Please take good care of yourself okay,I will be looking forward to reading from you.
HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS : [email protected]
Hi Tracey, I'm glad we are starting off on this communication in a great way, it motivates me to write you the more.I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad please accept my sincere condolence. do you have any pictures that you want to share.
I'm really glad we can communicate like this until we meet each other in person. its so amazing we can learn about each other without even meeting in person yet.i have seen the best of all places and apart from the fact that i love traveling so much my job also involves a lot of traveling but i haven't seen a woman to capture my heart yet.i want a loving,caring sweet and intelligent woman in my life right now who will love and care for me like i will love and care for her also.i want someone who will always make out time to listen to me like i will listen to her.i love to hold hands and cuddle.i really miss walking on the beach with that special someone and making sweet and passionate love all through the night.
I'm a one woman man and i hate cheats.i have been cheated on before so i know how painful it can be,so i don't do it to people.dearest after reading your profile i know the kind of woman you are and the kind of man you want in your life,and trust me you are not asking for to much.
I have some few question for you,I hope you don't mind
1.How stable is your life over the past relationship?
2.Have you learned something about yourself from every past relationship?
3.Have you narrowed down your specific desires as to what type of person you want to meet?
4.Are you really over your past?
5.How ready are you to love and beloved ?
6.do you talk about your feelings with someone else?
7.How ready are u to share your families with the right man ?
8.How would you treat a man like me if you been given a chance??
9.What's your greatest fear?What's the craziest thing that you have ever done?
10.What's your Fav Color?
11.What's your Fav Food?
12.Would the girl you were be happy about the woman that you have become?
13.What do you consider your greatest achievement?
14.Where's your Fav vacation spot?
15.If your were to come to life as an animal,which would it be?,
hope to read from you soon.
Hey dearest Tracey,Before i say anything i must say you are really a good writer,And i most say you are a lucky child.i enjoyed your email and i learned much about you from it.I hope you enjoyed my email also.Am really happy to receive your answers to my question's,Nice answer's,Your email has really given me an insight of your personality,Am happy to know that you have learned from your past relationship,On our path through life we encounter many different obstacles, people and experiences. This is what makes us unique. Everyone has a different life experience. The people who create happy lives take each experience and make it work for them, especially if it is a negative one. If you haven't learned something about the way you interact with another person from your past relationships, you're living in cycle that won't get broken until you take the time to find out. You can't possibly expect to break negative habits if you're not aware of them,So am really so happy that you have learned something.
Im happy to hear the way you will treat your man,I love that fact that you know much about what true love is all about,standing with each other in Good time and Bad time,It's always good running home every day after work knowing that he will be getting a great treatment.Am so happy to know that you are over your past cos sometimes is always hard to do that,I really appreciate the fact that you took out your time to tell me so much about yourself and am so happy that we can learn about each other this way,Honesty and trust is something that we most put first,cos we trust in order to love.
You are so open minded and this is something i really appreciate so much in a relationship,I keep going through your email and you really sound wonderful to me,All i have always wanted in a relationship is true love and happiness,I guess the best way to describe myself is that I'm a nice guy who is considerate and respectful of other people's feelings. I am compassionate,a great listener, and not afraid to show my emotions i believed not only in what a woman looks like but her heart plays the most important role to me because i want a real and a serious relationship with the right woman.Bet am old for Games. I'm a family man, who thinks it's more important to come home and spend quality time with the family instead of hanging out at the bar or out there doing some others stuffs.i enjoy traveling..... its nice seeing new places and meeting new people from the world. Bedroom aerobics are great, and I consider that an important part of a relationship.Believe it or not, the most sensitive part of my body is my fingertips. I love to touch!!! Holding hands and showing affection is very important to me. i believed in friendship so much cos to me it is the key role to a long lasting relationship.
I think i should answer my questions also.
Am over my past relationship,and i have learned so much from it,Am a better person now,And i have learned that honesty is the key to every long lasting relationship,My greatest fear is actually failure. the boy i was would be happy about the man i am now because i am still on my feet after the whole tragedy i went through,I want someone who knows when to laugh and when to cry. Someone who truly listens when i have something to say.Someone that's there for me during the good and bad times.Someone who is caring . and honest and romantic,and royal Someone who loves me with all their heart and soul.Someone who is interested in reality and not as a fashion display.Someone who is honest. Someone i can trust..My greatest achievement would be getting on with life even after the Blow(the death of the closest people in my life)My Greatest weapon,would be my Mind too,as i think about thinks and try to work a away through.I have always fought to get almost everything in my life,well i guess there's nothing free on earth.Am more then ready to love and beloved,This is all i have always dream and think of.Life without Love is like a harp without strings.If i was to come as an animal,I would come as an Eagle(beautiful and strong).Craziest thing ever done would be making Love in a park,I was young then,my favorite color is blue,Fav vacation spot would be the Carribeans,i would love to also go to Mexico.Fav Food would be Mexican(very spicy).
Please take good care of yourself and i want you to know that someone is thinking of you.
Hugs and Kisses
I HAVE NOT REPLIED TO THIS NEW EMAIL ABOVE RECEIVED TODAY!!!