Information on romance scams and scammers.
#52599 by Chris Fuller Thu May 05, 2011 6:45 am
This is not a genuine woman looking for a relationship; these emails have been sent by a scammer.

Most of the paragraphs in these emails are used by many scammers, as a google search on the sentences will reveal.

From: sowah phyllis <[email protected]>


My name is Sowah Phyllis and I am 32 years of age,I am 5-9 ft tall, 133 lbs,I am single never been married and I don't have children too I had two boy friends before one died and one betrayed me not knowing he was married and had kids,and I am born in NY but I now live in Ghana, My mum is from Ghana and my daddy is from NY but they met in NY and got married together so they gave birth to me in NY and when I was 11 years old my daddy divorced my mother in NY,so I and my mum came to Ghana to live with my grandmother but she also died 2 years ago so I now live with my mother okay,I hope you understand me.

well I am an honest and good christian who loves being surrounded by family, friends and holidays. I am ready for a serious relationship and I really look forward to starting that with the right person. I am an honest,loyal, passionate, generous, giving, affectionate, sexual, supportive, sensitive, and a good listener who is easy to get along with and I am outgoing and very spontaneous.

I am someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans, drinking a beer as in a black silk dress, sipping a glass of wine,I like the outdoors as I like to just stay at home.hang around the house getting my hands dirty in the to entertain,I am generally try to live a somewhere healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging ,3-4 days a week and eating healthy, trust me, I love sweets and pastries such as ice cream,biscuits,cheeps,fun ice,fun pop,yogurt and fun milk, but try not to over do it in my life and i do not smoke or drink.

I would also like to find an honest and good christian who we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue our interests as well.I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as cooking ,swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as sharing his interest with me too,I do also have some fun to such as fishing,boating,cooking,going to the beach and i do want to participate all this fun with the person in my life,I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work since we all do believe in almighty God the savior oops so you do?

and as I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well,I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we do spend together even better,I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - lol. but I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working.

I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning this are all responsibilities of a woman, I believe there is give and take in a relationship but I'm not here for one's funds or materials or other things since all this are not included in a relationship, but here looking for some one honest,truthful,god fearing and i good listener, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.

I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not too wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me,everybody makes mistakes and no one is 100% perfect and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over and I do not want to meet someone who may think of taking advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses,i do never lie,deceive,play games or cheat in my life and never wants to be cheated,deceive,lie or been played games with in my life.

I am sorry if this sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning,Well in relationship i do believe there should be trustee,believe and understand because this are all the most important thing relationship have to go with and without all this between the two couples i don't think the relationship will work and last forever which i do always pray to almighty God to have such a person who have all this in his heart in my life with all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.

well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding to you?..I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human beings with the same red blood in out bodies, we all make mistakes in life and i want to learn more about life in a relationship more and more),I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting his or her time or getting his or her feelings hurt,I hope you do understand me a lot and nice to meet you anyway I will end my letter here and I hope to read from you with a message about your self with your pictures too okay tell me everything about your self and if you want to know something else about me just ask me okay,take care and have a nice day,Kisses and Hugs.

Your new friend


Good Afternoon. How are you doing and thank you for the lovely and wonderful mail you sent to me. I feel excited whenever i read your mail. I am also glad to know something about you and you are very honest man. I have read and understood what you are talking about and i am willing to be that woman you are looking for. I am willing to be a wife to the right man and a mother to his kids. I love kids very much and i am willing to have my own kids with the right person. I hope you also want to have more kids. I hope you know that i am a student and will graduate very soon. I will soon be a nurse someday. But first i would like to find the right person who can love me and make me the happiest woman on earth. I will also make him the happiest man on the earth. I hope you have read something about me in details and i have also read the same from you. We have know each other now. But i want us to trust, believe and be honest with each other. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship.

Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed. To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to. Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her realize how much you really love her. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again. You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient.

I hope this will let you know how trust is important in a relationship and i would like to know what do you think. Do you think you can trust someone online. I mean on the internet? I will be waiting to hear back from you and hope to hear from you later. Take care .. Have a nice day ....

How are you doing. I hope everything is well with you.

Happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds,gold or money.Money and love aren't the same thing. The more you spend money, the less you have, the more you spend love, the more you get in return. Love doesn't cost money, but it does require the payment of your heart.A man can inherit a house and money from his parents, but only the Lord can give him a sensible wife. Love is when money and materialistic things no longer matter. It's when you're holding the hand of the woman you love and you feel like the richest man in the world - you have everything.With money, we can buy all things, but with love, we find everything that really matters.It isn't money, fame, or power, no, the greatest adventure in life is love.Power is one thing; money and power are two things, but love is everything.... I hope you understand me and will be waiting to hear back from you. Take good care and have a nice day. Kisses and Hugs

Thanks for the mail and i always feel excited and happy whenever i am reading your mail.

There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn¢t willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time.. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.

All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn¢t likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

I have already told you that i am ready and willing to relocate myself to wherever i will find the right person . So i am willing to come to [your country] and then meet you in real. I mean face to face and then trust each other. I hope you understand me and i will be waiting for an answer from you. take good care of yourself and then stay blessed .. Kisses and Hugs



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