Information on romance scams and scammers.
#16402 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:53 am
STEVE JONES

Liar and romance scammer

User name used dream2love20

Claims 57 years old, dob (the date of birth probably changes to a date shortly after meeting him, this is in the hope of getting a birthday present from you - Ralph) 1951, widower for 8 years with a dependant 12 year old daughter "lori", living in Saint Paul, Minnesota, USA, but at present working in Nigeria, constructing an orphanage


Mail address used [email protected]

Telephone number used +2347031515535

This scammer will go through a series of lies to get you to send him money, in no particular order;
Trying to get home and cant cash large pay cheque, asks for loan until he gets home.

His company has paid his air fare home but not for his "daughter" so needs to borrow money for "her" ticket.

Claimed to have be mugged and bashed and ending up in hospital needing to pay doctors bills, promises to pay back when he gets “home”

He will provide very realistic looking fake flight details showing he has paid for his ticket, this is a common trick scammers use, I will not go into details as I do not want to educate any scammers who may visit this thread but I will say that flight details are not difficult to produce with minimal effort.

This scammer, like many other romance scammers will encourage you to use chat with him, he will avoid answering your questions and he will be constantly be making up lies on the run in the hope of further convincing you about how much he loves you.

Looking closer at his chats you will notice short meaningless replies with very little actual content, he will then have sudden bursts of stolen love letters and romantic poems, he will tell you often that he loves and how beautiful you are but will avoid answering your questions


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Screenshot of this scammers dating site profile;

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Stolen poems/romantic letters sent by mail and IM by this scammer;
xxxxx,You are my world
You are my world, my own shining pearl
The love of my life, my comfort in strife
Always in my heart, though we're so far apart
and i swear now, that some way, some how
I love you baby oh so much, even when your to far to touch
and I'll kiss you my bride, and may we be together through all of time


YOU MEAN THE WORLD TO ME I HOPE YOU KNOW
MY HEART TOLD ME IT LOVES YOU SO
YOU ARE MY SUN,MY MOON,MY NIGHT AND DAY
MY WHOLE REASON TO LIVE,WHAT MORE CAN I SAY
YOU ARE THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE,THE BEAT IN MY HEART
BUT I KNEW THAT TREV RIGHT FROM THE START
YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING,MY BEGINING AND END
YOUR MY SOUL MATE,MY LOVER,AND MY FRIEND
YOU FULFILL MY DESIRES,MY HOPES MY DREAMS
JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW WHAT YOUR LOVES MEANS
YOU KISS MY SOUL WITH YOUR INTIMATE TOUCH
NO WONDER I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH

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#16403 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:54 am
You are my inspiration
Having you in my life
Revived my sleeping devotion
You are indeed a special someone
Loving you gives me hope
To free this misery that I coped
In those times I gave up
You came and I stood up
Never will I forget
How you always cheer me up
Every time I’m sad
And for that I’m glad
Whenever I’m lonely
You were there for me
Keeping my heart alive
With your every smile
I dedicate this poem to you
To show how much you meant
To me I love you
My special someone


In my dreams, I try to see you and take in your whole expanse from the beauty
of your smile to the depths of your soul where an ocean swells.
I'm rebuilding you out of pieces of clay, with some illogical hope that you'll materialize out of the darkness.
The heart alone can perceive these dimly lit realities, and trade longing for patience.And I'm living on the hope
borne of these dreams of you, that we'll be together soon
Thanks Steve...

Good morning beautiful how was your night
Mine was wonderful with you by my side
And when I opened my eyes and see your sweet face
Its a good morning beautiful day
I couldn't see the light
I didn't know day from night
I had no reason to care
Well since you came along
I can face the dawn
Cause I know you'll be there
Good morning beautiful how was your night
Mine was wonderful with you by my side
And when I opened my eyes and see your sweet face
Its a good morning beautiful day
I never worry if it's raining outside
Cause in here with you girl the sun always shines
Good morning beautiful how was your night
Mine was wonderful with you by my side
And when I opened my eyes and see your sweet face
Its a good morning beautiful day
Good morning beautiful day
It's a beautiful day
Good morning day
What a beautiful day

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#16404 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:55 am
You woke me from my sleep
and drenched my heart with a love so deep.
When I look into your eyes
I see my reflection,
my feelings for you I do not despise.
You treat me like the princess I should be
by pouring your sweet and sensual love all over me.
When I see you bitting your lip and anxiously trying to kiss me,
I debate in my mind whether or not I should let you taste me.
You stand there all quiet with your sexy body,
and I think in my mind, "Oh, my gosh, what a hottie."
When I hear you speak, all your beautiful voice does
is make me weak.
I love you for this and
I love you for that,
but you love me for everything and that
As we look into each other’s eyes
we begin to fully realize.
That God made you especially for me
and sent down his angels... just so it would be


You listen to my prayers;
You hear my every plea;
I’m safe because I know
You’re always there for me
Morning sun light of creation:
Grassy fields, a velvet floor:
Silver clouds, a shimmering curtain:
He's designed a perfect world.
I'm amazed at His talents, stand in awe of One so great:
Now my soul begins to sing out, to the source from which it came.
Bless the Lord, who reigns with beauty, Bless the Lord who reigns with wisdom and with power,
Bless the Lord who reigns my life with so much love, He can make a perfect heart.
O perfect Love, all human thought transcending,
: Lowly we kneel in pray'r before Thy throne,
That theirs may be the love which knows no ending,
Whom Thou forevermore dost join in one.
Have a Great day, sweetie!!


You are special,
because you're someone's friend.
You've touched someone's life
in a unique way
like no one else could.
You've been there when
someone needed you,
when someone felt
sad and all alone.
You've given comfort.
You've made someone smile.
You've been there to celebrate
the good times,
and to lend an ear when
someone needed you to listen.
Someone likes you.
Someone cares about you.
Someone appreciates
your warm heart.
Someone thinks
you're special...
that someone
is me...
and I'm sending you
a big, warm hug!

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#16405 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:56 am
Excerpts from IM chat;

yes
it called Base Travel Allowances
i need to hold that on my wallet
Now i need your help
i need to have that on my wallet
Oh my God pls
Cos i need to flight on (name of day) everning
i will pay you back
i need $3000
thanks for understanding
(Western Union) that is the only way i can get it
God Bless you
and sweet
thanks you
you will have to send cash right
God Bless you
God will take Control sweetie
i was born catholic, but also attend other churches...I go to church at least once a week
Definitely more the small and cozy kind of places for me even though I wouldn't feel awkward in a wild and crazy place. Home Depot could be my favorite hot spot. I enjoy many different restaurants, although Italian and Chinese are on top of the list
I truly love my life and who I am today. I am very romantic and passionate. I love candle light and precious moments together with the one that I love. I am very giving. I like to surprise a woman with gifts or just little favors to make her feel special
If you like to laugh, I will keep you laughing all the time. I know the right way to treat people and the woman in my life will always be made to feel special hate seeing a woman cry cos I will do anything to stop that tears from her eyes
am a one woman man I'd like to meet someone who is committed to working together
someone who is kind and loving, and comfortable with who they are.sensitivity and compassion is a must
i want to learn from you, and express appreciation for all of your beautiful qualities
I want to protect and adore you, and give you all the time and space you need for yourself and your valuable relationships
as I also have many. I want to make it with you alone. Yeah, these are all just words to you now, but you'll see for yourself, if you wish to... I love good food and wine
I am really into watching sports. I love kids, try to be a good boss and care deeply about making a difference in the work I do

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#16406 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:57 am
i want to grow old with you
sweetheart you are my Joy
thanks you
Thanks you
i want to love you forever
Don't measure the distance, measure my love,Love is the shortest distance between hearts ,When you feel alone, just look at the spaces between your fingers, remember that in those spaces you can see my fingers locked with yours forever
Sweetheart when are you going to WU
i really want you now
i need you in my life right now
i want to hold you tight
I am looking for a lady that can shower me with so much Love and care
and you have show care for me and my daughter
i will do everything to make you happy
am looking for woman that will love me for whom i am i have allots of love and happiness to give her
cos happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money
am a single dad who looks for trust, love, romance, a faithful person, a passionate person, a honest person, a caring person god fearing , humble , understanding , open minded, trustworthy and i do care about others feelings and and am seeking for someone that is loving
passionate , god fearing , trustworthy , open minded
and someone that's willing to be loved and love in return
a soul mate, a best friend, some one to grow old with and some one that will be all mine forever and someone that i can make happy always and she will do same to me
cos am a trust person i hate lie
i will never take advantage of you

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#16407 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:58 am
i swear with all mighty God the creator of heaven and Earth
have get in touch with them
there is nothing they can dio about it
that why am asking you for the help
am ashame am asking you for this help
Am the only Child of my parent
no brother no sister
i look like an orphan
it make me cry when i think about it
God sent Angel to me
i will never hurt you i promise
am crying and i feel asheme
ashame asking you for money for bta
i dont want to loose you
and i dont like the word goodbye
i hate the word goodbye
i will take good care of you
i swear
am crying right now with tears on my faces
i need to clean the tears
when i read your im today it make me cry
have been praying there that God alimighty touch your heart for me
i want you to believe in me and be strong in love
Just to let you know how much more i love you with my heart
i will do everything to make you happy and special
i will be your gardian angel
i will love you till the sun get dry
i will never disappoint you
i will bring you love and joy
i will take good care of you
i want my daughterr to grow old with you also

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#16408 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 8:59 am
Have me smiling from ear to ear, though your miles and miles away, You know exactly what to do to ensure with you I stay. You made me fall, fall hard baby, yes this is true, So much so, it’s about time I say I love you
My daughter want to call you mum
she said she like you so so much
Thinking bout the love we made on that first time
I can still remember the first day you held me in your arms, Right from that point you won me over with your charm. I deeply inhaled your scent, and I soon began to melt, This loving embrace confirmed exactly how u felt
You are my world You are my world, my own shining pearl The love of my life, my comfort in strife Always in my heart, though we're so far apart and i swear now, that some way, some how I love you baby oh so much, even when your to far to touch and I'll kiss you my bride, and may we be together through all of time
EARTH AND MOON I watch you grow I watch you sleep I see your every move I cry and cry to talk to you
but to you I am a dead object floating in the sky I love you dearly
We were meant to be long before we were born
and we came together to help each other find who we really are, and become all that we were destined to be. We'll struggle through the hard times and grow through them. We'll overcome whatever obstacles life puts before us,and we'll only get betterwith time.And as the years pass, our love will grow and blossom
You are special, because you're my love , and I appreciate everything you've done for me may God bless you
You are special, because you're someone's friend. You've touched someone's life in a unique way like no one else could. You've been there when someone needed you, when someone felt sad and all alone. You've given comfort. You've made someone smile. You've been there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when someone needed you to listen
i think God have purpose for you and i
I used to be a weary soul, trudging through the hours alone. I was searching for you
following your trail, and picking up clues. All of that time, I never really understood how incredible being with you would be-- I only knew that without you
I was a castaway, alone and empty. Just when I was about to surrender to long nights so dark and lonely, you entered my life at last, always love you
and I knew right away that you were my one and only, the one I'd waited for all of my life. Now I'm so caught up in loving you, that I can barely remember the meaning of feeling blue. You're my dream come true, and I swear that I will hurt you i promise to give you the Key of my heart

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#16409 by The Enchantress Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:00 am
i want to marry you and do wedding together if you only you will allow me to
you have won my heart
you are the Queen of my life
My love pls believe me and have faith
that God you i love you and i will keep loving you till i die
i just finishing saying morning prayer for you and i
My God will take good care of you sweetie
God have brighter my day with you
My God told me in my dream i will have you forever
i need to know when i will get the bta fees
i need to let them know when i will have the fund
can you send all on (name of day)
you mean western union online
Sweetie it will be better you send cashed
same address and question and answer
God Bless you my love
am going to church now
cant wait to chat with you tomorrow
Missed you deeply i cant afford to loose you my love for you is so so deep how i wish am there to prove it

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#16467 by Ralph Fri Nov 13, 2009 9:56 pm
In one of the poems the scammer forgot to take out the name of the person it was actually written for;

This line. "BUT I KNEW THAT TREV RIGHT FROM THE START"

an exact search on that line shows where it came from as well as examples of other scammers using the same line Click Here

Going though picking out some other quotes from his writing;
Click on the following phrases to see other exact examples.
"I can still remember the first day you held me in your arms, "
we came together to help each other find who we really are, and become all that we were destined to be
Don't measure the distance, measure my love,Love is the shortest distance between hearts
am a single dad who looks for trust, love, romance, a faithful person, a passionate person
Definitely more the small and cozy kind of places for me even though I wouldn't feel awkward in a wild and crazy place
When I see you bitting your lip and anxiously trying to kiss me Nearly 1,000 hits on this one
#16481 by The Enchantress Sat Nov 14, 2009 4:34 am
Mails;

Hello xxxxx,
How are you doing , it nice to read from you am veyr happy , you sound very nice to me am very much interested in you , i will loved to know you more better , do you have yahoo instant messenger ? if you dont kindly download it on your computer this will help to know each other better, i cant wait to read from you ,
Thanks Steve ..


xxxxx,
How are you doing , it nice to read again from you , am glad you sound very much interesting tell me more about your self, and do you have computer at Home ?


Cos i will loved to downlaod yahoo instant messenger i wmat to chat with you to know you more better pls do


What do you do for work

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#16495 by Ralph Sat Nov 14, 2009 7:53 am
Here is another email where he writes about himself

About me,
I am a contractor I do Building construction and development of Rural areas
and due to this reason I travel a lot I have been lonely
since after I lost a long lasted relationship with my wife
who died in a car accident 8 years ago with my two lovely sons, she was a part of my
life she was all I got and all I wanted to make my life
worth living and i just won a contract in West Africa which i have been taking care of here in africa for some while but i am almost done and i should be back home in couple of weeks, Don't measure the distance, measure my love,Love is the shortest distance between hearts ,When you feel alone, just look at the spaces between your fingers, remember that in those spaces you can see my fingers locked with yours forever, I am looking for a lady that can shower me
with so much Love and care, I am also looking for long time
relationship (Lifetime relationship something really
serious) on this dating website and we can start up things
from there. I have been married for 25 years and I have been a widow for
8 years I just wish there was never a time I had to lost
anyone in my life because right now my parent are also gone
and all I got now is my 1 daughter, and she is also in support of my search for a woman of my dream, am looking for woman that will love me for whom i am i have allots of love and happiness to give her ,cos happiness is the only thing on earth that cannot be paid by any diamonds, gold or money, tell me a little about yourself? am a single dad who looks for trust,
love, romance, a faithful person, a passionate person, a
honest person, a caring person god fearing , humble ,
understanding , open minded, trustworthy and i do care about
others feelings and and am seeking for someone that is
loving . passionate , god fearing , trustworthy , open
minded , and someone that's willing to be loved and love in
return, a soul mate, a best friend, some one to grow old
with and some one that will be all mine forever and someone
that i can make happy always and she will do same to me and
when I saw your profile i look into your eyes and i see
something special and my heart just shook to feel warm
inside all I had to do was take on look and then I decided I
send u a message and I would appreciate it a lot if you get
back to me if you think you are looking for the same thing
and you u think you can be that one special woman
#16623 by Ralph Mon Nov 16, 2009 5:23 am
Here are further short emails from this scammer.

In these emails he is trying to find other ways to communicate with his victim besides email, while many scammers are happy to scam using email only, many others will want to use chat and or telephone calls to speed up their scam.

You will notice that these emails are very short, he is trying to gauge how compliant his victim will be and trying not to waste any time until he knows.

In these examples, the victim has said no to chat and no to making phone calls which may be enough for him to move onto a more compliant victim, time will tell.

Sure i will called you (removed), what is your phone number i will loved to call you now from west africa


Hello (Removed),
How are you doing , it nice to read from you am very happy , give me your phone number , i will loved to chat with you


Africans make common gramatical errors, in these examples you will notice poor grasp of past tense;

"i will called you"
"i will loved to"
"i will loved to chat"

Another common mistake Africans make is to use "am" rather than "I am"

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