Welcome, Dramaqueen
There's a fairly active 'Love Scam's' forum here that you might like to look at.
We all sympathise with people who have been hit upon by the so-called 'Love Scammers', as it's not only the money they may have lost but also the damage they can be done do to the emotions & trust of their victims!
It must be difficult to trust anyone again after being played by one of these criminals, but provided the good people are aware of how the scams work, who the 'players' are & all the warning signs - we hope they will realise that they were not writing to the person whose photo they were sent, the person they believed they had fallen for - but a sick minded criminal in an internet cafe (or, in the case of the Eastern European scammers, a gang of stupid youngsters.)
We sincerely hope the emotional damage is not lasting & that those who are scammed can realise there are genuine dating sites - and genuine people - out there.
As said above, please visit 419eater and possibly try baiting the scammers!