The pains are part of healing. It is sad but true, healing hurts too. Time does help the healing, instead of hurting every hour, the hurt is only 2 or 3 times a day. Then one time per day, then one time per week and next one time per month. It can take a year or so to have little if any pain at all.
Some times pain is mistaken for anger, especially for women. It is okay and good to be angry at what was done to you. Scammers are cruel and they don't care, they have no remorse. To not communicate with them is the best way to heal. It stops the fantasy from growing again.
Healing takes time. There is a saying: Time heals all wounds. some one added this to it Time wounds all heals. This is talking about people like scammers. The will get their wounds too.
Bubbles, former Scamwarners moderator.
Rest in Peace 24 June 2015.
Gone, but never forgotten.